Frustrated!

[sydneyisawesome]

Alright so..my friend and I are now both aware we're both bi. Problem is - that he likes a straight guy, and I'm sort of jealous too - cause to me, even though the guy isnt aware - I am, and cause well I might be attracted to him :S Help? What to do?

[Lights]

Thinking sensibly, I would say that there's not a problem with this. I say this because you've identified that the guy you both like is straight.
I'm looking out for both of you when I say not to take any action with this guy for two reasons:
-It'll cause conflict between the two of you
-If this guy is straight, neither of you are in with much of a chance and you could cause both of yourselves major embarrassment because of how cruel people can be

Do you and your friend like each other (sexually) at all?

[sydneyisawesome]

haha lemme rephrase
i like sorta like the bi guy...and he likes the straight guy LOL

[myskias]

haha dude just tell him then? who knows what good can come? worse comes to worst hell say na i dont like you.. then you move on and find someone else! but u dont have to ruin a friendship over it.

the only reason friendships are ruined over these kinds of things is cause they make it such a big deal. if you act like its nota big deal then nothing bad will happen between you two

[nick]

It can be very difficult if you become attracted to a long-term friend because they dont see you as anything apart from a friend. Who knows though, he might secretly like you too but not want to say anything. If he prefers the straight guy well there's nothing you can really do about it, accept it and move on.