View Full Version : Am I gay?
BLAH.
November 12th, 2010, 03:45 PM
I'm 15 years old.
I get turned on by men NOT women.
Seeing pictures of penis' turns me on.
I also get turned on by armpit hair and chest hair, but could this be because that is how I want to look?
However, I don't get turned on by women. I don't find breasts or vaginas attractive at all. But, I do get turned on if a girl sits on my knee or holds my hand and stuff like that. And I also sometimes get turned on when I think about a girl giving me blowjobs, handjobs, and even kissing me. I am emotionally attracted to girls. I fancy girls, NOT boys. And I really want relationships with girls and I really want to engage in sexual activities with them, even though I don't get turned on by vaginas or breasts.
I've been having these feelings for a few years now.
I really don't want to be gay, no offence to gay people.
What do you think?
Fact
November 12th, 2010, 03:49 PM
IMO, if you were truly gay, then you'd want to have a relationship with another guy. If you don't want that, then maybe you're not gay?
Other people may say differently, just my thoughts.
Also, if you've not had much sexual experience, you'll maybe find that your lack of attraction to female genitalia will change once you've had more sexual contact with girls?
Bottom line, though: only you yourself can know if you're gay or not.
UnknownError
November 12th, 2010, 03:52 PM
Bottom line, though: only you yourself can know if you're gay or not.
Only you know if your truly gay or not. Nobody else can choose for you.
closed
November 12th, 2010, 05:38 PM
Look, I'll be honest with you. Ok? i won't lie to you to make you feel better, so decide if you want to read it.
It's ridiculous when 13 year old boys say "i'm straight\bi\gay" because it may change quite a few times b4 it stabelises(obviously not everyone, but the most). at 15, it still may change, but it's less likely than b4.
Everyone wants to be normal, but obviously not everyone is straight.
bottom line, is you need to be honest to yourself. Maybe you are bi? Maybe it will change. But one thing is for sure: You are the only one that could know it.
Brandon.
November 12th, 2010, 07:28 PM
Look, I'll be honest with you. Ok? i won't lie to you to make you feel better, so decide if you want to read it.
It's ridiculous when 13 year old boys say "i'm straight\bi\gay" because it may change quite a few times b4 it stabelises(obviously not everyone, but the most). at 15, it still may change, but it's less likely than b4.
Everyone wants to be normal, but obviously not everyone is straight.
bottom line, is you need to be honest to yourself. Maybe you are bi? Maybe it will change. But one thing is for sure: You are the only one that could know it.
True Statement.
You shouldn't have to ask about your sexuality, honestly, maybe your curious, who knows.
IAMWILL
November 13th, 2010, 03:54 AM
Yo, diddo, almost word for word.
I would say no. I accept it as simply hormones for now, because you and I are only 15 and there's plenty of puberty left. This may seem irrelevant, but when was the last time you had a girlfriend or how long has it been since youve been with a girl or kissed a girl or something along those lines? I haven't really been with anyone for a year now and I feel like the longer that goes on the more I feel the feelings you described.
Pm/Vm me if you wanna talk more about it cause I'm in the same position as you it seems.
artex
November 13th, 2010, 04:05 AM
id say your normal and being 15 is a hard age. id be open about it if i were you and try not to label yourself now ok
alot going on inside you and it does soooo much to your brain..
The Joker
November 13th, 2010, 04:24 AM
Yeah, you're one hundred percent gay, there's no way you can be straight at all. NO WAY.
jk. Only YOU can know if you're gay.
BLAH.
January 17th, 2011, 05:02 PM
UPDATE
I really like this girl, and whenever I'm with her I get turned on.
I always imagine her giving me handjobs, blowjobs and having sex with me.. these thoughts always turn me on.
However, when I look at pictures of naked girls.. I'm not turned on at all? :what:
And, I still get turned on by men.
So confused! :what:
ackmedsgirl666
January 18th, 2011, 01:19 PM
mhmm either bi-curious or straight up bi-sexual maybe
it sounds like u like both but u don't know if u are ready to test it out
so only u can determine your sexuality
Lights
January 18th, 2011, 02:23 PM
I'm just going to be honest with you, and this is a view none of the posts above have given.
I think you are in denial. It sounds like you do like boys, but you don't want to. I mean at the very least, I would say you were bisexual. If you truly are turned on by this girl, like you've said, then I may have marked this up a little wrong. It just sounds to me like you want to like girls, but you simply don't. But perhaps you do like girls, I mean the thought of a girl giving me a BJ/HJ doesn't thrill me much at all, and I'm gay.
Hey, only you know. Just think to yourself honestly about it... and you'll know.
OutOfOrder
January 18th, 2011, 04:34 PM
I would say that you're probably not gay if you want to have relationships with girls. You probably like looking at those things because that's what you want your own body to look like.
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