Pylon

[The Joker]

Well, as usual, whenever I have a problem, another one gets piled on. Right now, one of my best friends is major into self harm, and doesn't exactly seem to want help. I'm very nervous for her and I want to help but she doesn't really seem to want it. She's mad at someone who told others about her self harm (reasonably so) but she's also ticked off about having to go to the counselor. Read the "Drama Mamas" thread which explains this a bit more.

Also, my brother had an episode (I guess it would be called, not a psychotic one or anything) today. Apparently my dads computer is being monitored, and he was treating us with extreme disrespect, telling my dad to eat shit and shut the fuck up, y'know, the usual. So I start beating the crap out of him (my dad wasn't really doing anything about it) and he threatened to kill me. He was hurling insults every which way.

yeah, whatever.

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I'm sorry to hear that. It's too bad i don't know you enough, maybe if i did i would be able to help some more, but here is what i can do:
-1st, Try to explain the girl your point of view. Tell her that it's hard for you to know that she is through it, and just say all of this gently. After that tell her that wenever something happens, she can\should go straight to you and you'll be glad to help.
2nd-It sucks to fight with your brother, but i don't get it - is the brother youngeror older than you? if he's older you should beware, you don't want to end up getting hurt (in any way there is), and if it's a young brother, you shouldn't really pay attention to his sayings... Hope that helps.
Contact me if you ever need someone totalk to :hug: