Guy friends all weird now

[tomboysk8r1314]

Ok so as of tomorrow i will have been going out with my boyfriend for a week. As ive noticed ever since i started to date him (we've been flirting and everything months before we got together) that my guy friends are weird. They are friends with him but now they're more mean. They call him names, attack him, and other shit.

Then on my facebook ill post something like "Had an amazing day! And guess what another one is coming tomorrow" and they all comment with a "GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!" but i know its sarcastic.

So what the hell? Whats with all the sudden hostility?

I mean they even helped him ask me out! lol

[LiveLife23]

maybe their mad because your boyfriend is getting more time with you then they are

[tomboysk8r1314]

The thing is though we invite them to go to the movies with us, and all that yet they say they dont want to...im just confused lol

So yes i do spend more time with my boyfriend but i dont like abandon them, i still sit by them at lunch and talk to them during outside time.

[closed]

They are jealous. Even if they are not interested in you specifically, they may be protective of you, and afte all they are teenager males. They should be idiotically teritorrial. But again, maybe they are just jealous. Some people are just magnets.

[AnimeLover1991]

To me it's just because they are jealous.

[tomboysk8r1314]

They are jealous. Even if they are not interested in you specifically, they may be protective of you, and afte all they are teenager males. They should be idiotically teritorrial. But again, maybe they are just jealous. Some people are just magnets.

Well one of them is my ex lol so maybe your right..but thing is they never had a problem with him hanging out and taling and all the sctuff with me before. Cuz as i said earlier we've been fliritng and all for about a month before we started dating.

But anyways youre probably right

[ShatteredWings]

They probebly see you as one of the guys, and when you're now dating one, they're torn, and probably a bit betrayed (do. not. say. this. to. them)

[Clawhammer]

Guys are territorial, and sensitive in such areas often, or at least I am. I've been in somewhat of a similar situation to those guys, and still am, and feel the same way, though I'm not sure why. Again, I think it's territorial instincts and partly loneliness on my part, thus jealousy and distrust. Hard to explain and really weird, but it's human nature.

[tomboysk8r1314]

They probebly see you as one of the guys, and when you're now dating one, they're torn, and probably a bit betrayed (do. not. say. this. to. them)
Well we are all very close (they're like my brothers practically) and yeah i now not to tell them lol i was just confused on why the sudden change of heart towards us.

Guys are territorial, and sensitive in such areas often, or at least I am. I've been in somewhat of a similar situation to those guys, and still am, and feel the same way, though I'm not sure why. Again, I think it's territorial instincts and partly loneliness on my part, thus jealousy and distrust. Hard to explain and really weird, but it's human nature.

Well alrighty...they seem to be calming down a bit now and are accepting it. I still get occasionaly teasing tho xP

[Philleeep]

Im a guy and will give my honest opinion. I feel the way sometimes. Prahaps some of your friends felt like you liked them. And therefore suprised and angred by this and they feel led on. Or just jealousy. I hate my ex now after we stopped going out i helped her with her new boyfriend. But after that ive been spoken too differently. Like it was my fault they hadnt met n stuff earlier.

[JCake]

Lol, I remember when one of my best friends since kindergarten was going out with this one guy. Threatened to kill him if he ever hurt her and was a complete jerk to him whenever I could be. Teenage hormones = teenage stupidity.