*help Me Please I Dont No What To Do*

[Barelythere]

please some1 tell me, ive never bn in this situation before, i was too young last time, i didnt think he would, why am i so fucking stupid, patheic bitch, please some1 help me, my cousin, he stayed over last night, he got drunk, i dont think he remembered but i sure as hell do, he raped me, more than one, and to make it that much worse, he was unprotected, what should i do, i wanna get out of this house, hes left now, but i fell sick, and so dirty, im hateing my self right now, should i go to the doctor, get the morning after pill? i could walk there, im so scared, do i need my mom to get it? i could get my bf to drop me off later but i dont want him to no, oh fuck ive ruined everything :'( please help im desperate, i dotn no what to do

[Sapphire]

Harrie, you have to get away from them. :hug:

Ok, there are three ways of getting the morning after pill. You can see your doctor (and no you don't have to take your mum) he will give you a prescription for the pill. You can go to a family planning centre I think, and get it from there. Or you can go to the chemist and buy it over the counter. This will cost you £25 though. Whereas the others are free.

[Barelythere]

thank you :)

[mRojas2000]

Get out of that fuck Harrie...
You are beautiful :)
Just go to the doctor by yourself explain him what happened, and let him get you the pills... you'll be fine :)

[Barelythere]

im gunna go when my bf gets back, im just kinda scared to tell him why i need to go, its gunna upset him, and i dotn think i can deal with that right now, ahhh, im soo messed up, i will go and get the pill, but i dont think ill tell, i dont no, should i?

[megamikey59]

i think you might need to tell your mom or dad.. and if they do care about you they'll keep that bastard away from you.. sorry if they don't but then i don't think they care that much.. but you should go to the doctors now and get the morning after pill.. then go to the police station and file a report against him.. then go to court and put him in prison..

[Elscire]

file a rape report in him, that'll get him away from you for a while.

[mRojas2000]

Dude... sorry to say it, but... well... his dad and mom are both asses... she has tried everything... I'm not sure if harrie wants to put this herself... its still in the forums tho:

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=107812&postcount=1
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=110017&postcount=9
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=110440&postcount=11
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=110675&postcount=14

[Gamebreaker]

man, she is in a hard situation. :( I think you should take the morning after pill, then file a complaint against him, and send him to jail. Dont be scared, its for tha best :cool:

[Sapphire]

Harrie. File a rape report against your cousin, get him arrested. Then file a report against your dad for child abuse. He will get arrested if you do this. That way you can get away from them and to a safe place.

Did you get the pill?

[Dante]

ok, Harrie first u need to go to the police file the reprt, then u need to go to a clinic and find out if he gave you some sort of STD, also find out if u r pregnant(if u didnt take the pill by now, which would be too late to work). Do not let him get away with this!

[Bobby]

I talked to her yesterday, she took the pill.

[mRojas2000]

Thank god...

Question about this pill:
Is it just ONE pill, or you have to get a series of them...

[Sapphire]

It is just one pill called Levonelle One Stop. It alters hormone levels and thereby preventing pregnancy. Its most effective taken up to 24 hours, although it can work when taken up to 3days afterwards.

[Dante]

isnt the morning after pill 2 pills...you take one in the mornign and then another one later that night.

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Emergency contraception:
The morning-after pill

What is it?

Emergency contraception (also known as the morning-after pill) is a high dosage of the birth control pill. It is recommended to be used after sexual intercourse, over a period of 72 hours, to achieve the goal of preventing (or ending) pregnancy. There are three different ways birth control pills are currently being promoted for this use: progesterone alone, estrogen alone, or both of these artificial steroids together.

These are the same steroids found in the typical birth control pill.

Where did this idea come from?

The idea of emergency contraception—or a morning-after pill—is based on a theory. Under this theory, if a woman has sexual intercourse and fears she may be pregnant, she can take large doses of birth control pills. If in fact the woman is pregnant when she takes these birth control pills, the high dosage could act to kill her preborn child—a living human being. The only "emergency" in this case is the woman's fear of being pregnant.

There are at least two formulations of the birth control pill that are being marketed as "emergency contraceptives." Also, double doses (or more) of existing birth control pills are also prescribed (or self- administered) as "emergency contraception." Though no testing has been done to confirm the safety of these large doses of birth control pills for women (and very limited testing has been done on the specifically marketed "morning-after" pills), the Food and Drug Administration has approved this use.

How do emergency contraception/morning-after pills work?

The emergency contraceptive/morning-after pill has three possible ways in which it can work (as does the regular birth control pill):

1. Ovulation is inhibited, meaning the egg will not be released;
2. The normal menstrual cycle is altered, delaying ovulation; or
3. It can irritate the lining of the uterus so that if the first and second actions fail, and the woman does become pregnant, the human being created will die before he or she can actually attach to the lining of the uterus.

In other words, if the third action occurs, her body rejects the living human embryo, and the child will die. This result is a chemical abortion. (Abortion is an act of direct killing that takes the life of a living preborn human being—a life that begins at fertilization.)

Is it safe?

Here are some of the side effects:

* nausea
* vomiting
* infertility
* breast tenderness
* ectopic pregnancy (can be life threatening)
* blood clot formation

Emergency contraception also offers no protection against sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS.

There are no long term studies to show whether women will be permanently damaged, or risk such diseases as cancer, from these chemicals being given in such high doses.

Sources:

* A Consumer's Guide to the Pill and Other Drugs, by pharmacist/researcher John Wilks.
* Infant Homicides Through Contraceptives, by pharmacist Bogomir Kuhar; 2nd edition, 1995.
* Medical consultant: Stephen Spaulding, M.D. Dr. Spaulding is a board-certified family practitioner whose writings have appeared in a variety of medical journals.

[Glasgow]

Omg huni, i just read this now :| You NEED to report them BOTH, for now your cousin is more important, THEN your dad for sure. Ill be on MSN alottt now. So talk to me as much as you want. Good luck chick *hugs you*

[Zazu]

I'm glad you took it Harrie but i still say you need to do something about it. No one desveres to be treated like you are being! Well if you wanna talk on msn i'll be on a lot so yeh u got my addie so any time u wanna talk go for it :D

[iluvlamp1414]

well it looks like they gave you more information than i could. but i wish you the best of luck and your in my prayers.

[kurlyopapa]

please some1 tell me, ive never bn in this situation before, i was too young last time, i didnt think he would, why am i so fucking stupid, patheic bitch, please some1 help me, my cousin, he stayed over last night, he got drunk, i dont think he remembered but i sure as hell do, he raped me, more than one, and to make it that much worse, he was unprotected, what should i do, i wanna get out of this house, hes left now, but i fell sick, and so dirty, im hateing my self right now, should i go to the doctor, get the morning after pill? i could walk there, im so scared, do i need my mom to get it? i could get my bf to drop me off later but i dont want him to no, oh fuck ive ruined everything :'( please help im desperate, i dotn no what to do

Remeber me? i hav the same prob. 2 but my cuz has moved and probably won't ever see him again hopefully! All u have 2 do is threaten to tell, believe me it worked!! I give u my best wishes
kurly

[alrighty lindsay]

i'll be redundant:

report, report, report.

[Bankai15]

Off with his head!!!!

[Obscene Eyedeas]

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