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SecretHarmer
November 11th, 2010, 02:08 PM
Hi all,

So I've never seen myself as Bi, or Lesbian I've always had boyfriends and pretty much liked the boys.
But I'm in my teens now, actually 15 and I think I could be bisexual.

I look at some girls and I think there beautiful well sexy, it's not just an admiration I actually feel like I really like them I sort of go through phases with different people where I like them. They never find out, and some of them I don't even know.
But then again I like boys, I find some of them attractive.
But I don't want to be anything but straight, people judge you on that, I'd never tell anyone as I'm not positive anyway but still.

I could see myself with a boy or a girl really, But I think I'm still thinking about it to be honest.

Can anyone give me any guidance?

Ender
November 11th, 2010, 03:01 PM
No one here can tell you exactly what you are, only you can know the true answer.

However, I will tell you in the adolescent years, curiosity is very common with the rushing hormones and all. Theres no rush, you have your whole life to figure out who/what you are.

Just remember to be who you want to be, and dont let anyone stop you :)

nick
November 11th, 2010, 05:35 PM
It sounds as if you could be bi, but only you can tell really. Many of us that are gay or bi would choose to be straight if we could, it would just be easier in some ways, but at the end of the day its important to be honest with yourself and accept that it doesnt make you a different person.

SamB
November 11th, 2010, 06:08 PM
Ender and Nick have basically said it all you are the only one how can decide and it may just be hormones making you are curious

spitwhite
November 16th, 2010, 12:53 AM
You can't always get what you want. It is possible that you are Bi. Whether you are or not I am not the one to tell you. You have to figure things out on your own.

JuJu92
November 20th, 2010, 05:44 PM
Your fifteen years old, still in puberty and your likings are likely to switch and change through out the course of time. There’s a possibility you might discover that you’re a bisexual. Only one way to know for sure and that’s through experimentation but it’s something you’d have to not only feel ready for but feel comfortable doing as well. Don’t rush it either, let the opportunity come your way, don’t go out of your way searching for answers. Nothing in life is meant to be rushed.