Comin out

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So I think I may be bi. I like girls but I really want to have sex with guys and maybe date one. I'm 13 so should I come out to my friends and family? The only problem is my friends are kinda homophobic. What do you think?

[TopGear]

Hi there!

Well at only being 13, are you sure you are bi? Not, just curious? It is very normal for teens to be curious about the same sex while going through puberty. But if you feel that you are bi, then so be it, Only you can tell.

About coming out, If I were you I would come out when you think time is right. Don't be afraid of doing so, your parents and family should be supportive and love you just like before. For those homophobic friends, they might show that they are, but I'm sure if you tell them, It will be weird at first, but they will grow to adjust to it and move on. If they don't accept you for who you are, then they really wern't your friend in the first place.

Good Luck!

~Drew

[nick]

Its up to you to choose when to come out. There is no need to until you are really sure of your sexuality and until you feel ready to make that step. Obviously its hard to date a guy without anyone knowing, but until that happens its really nobody elses business unless you want it to be.