School

[xhelgrindx]

Okay...
My girlfriend went to a college fair today. She told me she wants to go to fucking Hawaii! WTF! Or Cali or somewhere warm wtf. So you're choosing somewhere warm to live and go to school for 2-3 years over me wtf. I hate school i hate high school i hate college. I'm really confused last night we talked about her going to college in state which is 45 min away and she was complaining that that is to far away from each other now she wants to go to Hawaii which is across the fucking pacific ocean. I wouldn't be able to do it im scared. I'm scared that she is going to go to Cali or Hawaii and we might break up i hear stories like that all the time and im just scared. I love her she loves me shes my best friend im her best friend. I want to get married to her and raise a family we talk about this its just not me. I don't think that she would hook up with some guy over there in Hawaii. I just wont be able to see her and that kills me. She's my best friend shes my only friend seriously. Omg. Idk whats going through her mind idk how she would be able to do that because i seriously could not. Fuck school. I just want to be done with school and start life have a nice job so i can support her and my future family and I want to marry her. Omg. Wtf. Idk.

[ShatteredWings]

maybe she has different expectations from the relationship.

[Sage]

So you're choosing somewhere warm to live and go to school for 2-3 years over me wtf.

God forbid a woman puts her education before a relationship.

[Mr. Awesome]

If you love her you will do whats best for her, ehich is letting her get the best education she can where she will be happy studying

[spfreak]

long distance can be annoying, but it's her choice. She will still be back for xmas and summers and such, right? You can spend lots of time with her then and when you graduate maybe you could go to the same school as her.

[ShatteredWings]

long distance can be annoying, but it's her choice. She will still be back for xmas and summers and such, right? You can spend lots of time with her then and when you graduate maybe you could go to the same school as her.

Something tells me, with his attitude, long distance would be a bad idea.

[IAMWILL]

If you cannot handle a big change in a relationship then i don't think you can handle a serious relationship at all. I also don't think she see's this relationship as you do, because putting education before a relationship really is the right choice. You seem obsessive over her and really insecure about her leaving for another college, and that you can't see yourself together unless you are physically together. If you want to still be with her to this extent, go to her college, but most relationships end somewhere and this is probably the most common way among teenagers. It's her relationship too, and she also has her own life, and she is allowed to do what she wants with her life regardless of how it affects your relationship.

[coeur de lapin]

If you cannot handle a big change in a relationship then i don't think you can handle a serious relationship at all. I also don't think she see's this relationship as you do, because putting education before a relationship really is the right choice. You seem obsessive over her and really insecure about her leaving for another college, and that you can't see yourself together unless you are physically together. If you want to still be with her to this extent, go to her college, but most relationships end somewhere and this is probably the most common way among teenagers. It's her relationship too, and she also has her own life, and she is allowed to do what she wants with her life regardless of how it affects your relationship.

This.
But it doesn't sound like he even wants to go to college:

Fuck school. I just want to be done with school and start life have a nice job so i can support her and my future family and I want to marry her. Omg. Wtf. Idk.

Unfortunately, most nice jobs require an education.

[Aves]

If you really do love her, like you claim, you can endure the years without her by your side, to know that she's bettering herself and is still yours. If you're gonna throw a bitch fit over that, then you can't handle a serious relationship. If you truly love her, you would die for her. Not a metaphor either. You go up to the man threatening to kill her, and let him kill you. Cliche? Yes. True? Yes.
Put her before your needy ass. This is nothing compared to losing her forever. This is a few years.

[Sage]

If you truly love her, you would die for her. Not a metaphor either. You go up to the man threatening to kill her, and let him kill you. Cliche? Yes. True? Yes.
Put her before your needy ass. This is nothing compared to losing her forever. This is a few years.

Sometimes I think we forget that we're all teenagers and not harlequin romance novelists. That's a little extreme, man.

[Punk_Kid]

True.

I hate romance books anyways:P And like countless others have said, it will only be for about 4-6 years, depending on the course and degree, but you could see her during vacations. And I would recommend you at least complete high school...

[Aves]

Sometimes I think we forget that we're all teenagers and not harlequin romance novelists. That's a little extreme, man.

To be honest, I don't know what I was thinking when I wrote that XD I guess I was just rambling using bad examples.

It's only 4 or so years. You should be fine.

[Clawhammer]

Actually, I agree with Aves to a certain point. It's okay to slightly have a difference of opinion, but if you're being all "WTF" about it, you ain't ready to take things to the next level. Be patient, let her do what she will, and you do what's best for her if you actually love her, which is somewhat doubtful because actual love is selfless.

[Daniel_]

It's her education.. If your selfish enough to put your own HAPPINESS, before her own PRIORITIES, well, not to sound harsh, but maybe you don't DESERVE her.

[The Madness.]

Your girlfriend's just thinking about her future plans, rather than some teenage relationship that might not even last until she goes to college. Let her make her own choices before you start pouting about it. It's her life. If you two really love each other, you can handle a few years apart. It wouldn't be like you'd NEVER see her, she could come home for holidays, or you could go visit her. Stop thinking about only negative things that could happen.

[AutumnDae]

You're 16, nothing says this relationship will last forever.

Let her make her own decisions, for her, not you.

[Necroxfiendx07]

Unfortunately it's the way of life, and she has her priorities in the right place. School is always important. That's not saying she HAS to go to the west coast, but if that's what she wants, then that's what she wants.