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hardcore-smile
November 9th, 2010, 09:03 PM
Heey there guys,
I've been dating this guy for about 3 years now.
And yesterday he talked to this girl who is a huge whore and he did it because he knew it would upset me. Later that day, after school he got into a car accident.
I never got to talk to him about what happened because he went to the hospital, (hes fine) when he got out i asked him what happened and if he was ok then he said "my phone is going to die, and im not at home i'm at my grandmas we'll talk later" and i said "i need to talk to you about what happened today though" and ever since he said that we would talk later he has never texted me(this was last night). I keep sending him texts off the hook, but he wont answer. What should i do/say to him to get him to answer my texts because i know for a fact he is ignoring me.

thanks, xoxo

spfreak
November 9th, 2010, 10:05 PM
Aw :(. That's crappy what he's doing to you. I don't think there is a way to 'make' him talk to you. But you can tell him you love him and go in person (easier to talk that way and shows that you care for them more if you go all the way to their house to talk). Good luck! I really hope all works out

IAMWILL
November 9th, 2010, 11:32 PM
You need to relax.
He got into a car accident and went to a hospital, that's usually a pretty shocking experience. He's probably not responding to anyone right now, not just you. If you need to really talk to him, especially about something serious, do it in person.

hardcore-smile
November 10th, 2010, 05:30 PM
his parentts hate me and im not allowed @ his house.
and ive been his girlfriend for 3 years? im not just anyone

Art_dude
November 10th, 2010, 07:28 PM
Actually, you don't know he's ignoring you on purpose - at least not from the information you've given us.

As Will said so well, he was just in a CAR ACCIDENT. He's going though a lot now. If he's been a faithful boyfriend of 3 years then he no doubt wants to talk to you. Give it a few days for him to acclimate to what just happened. You don't know what happened during the crash: he could be physically injured or mentally traumatized to the point where he's not able to speak as of right now. Give it a few days hun.