Stupid family..

[Love.Hate]

My sisters are horrible.
They are 11 and 13 so both are younger than me, The are right b*tches
every single day there is an arguement in this stupid household!
I just cant cope anymore i wish they were not in my life.
Yesterday when i went to bed all i could hear in the other room was them
slagging me off,

"oh fran is such a geek, i wonder why people even like her"
"she thinks she is pretty, but she's not im prettier"
"She is a cow, Mums "angel" her only good child, i wish she was never born"

I dont think im pretty either, so it has just knocked my self confidence even more. I wish they would stop being so mean!

I feel like i should shout at them and tell them i can hear what there saying, but im not that type of person. I just lay there and cried and cut and cried more (they are the main reason now why i cut) . I have told my mum that i hate them but she just thinks its sibling rivalry. Its so much more than that!

They make my life hell!, make up rumours about me, say horrible things about my boyfriend! Urghhh..

Anyway i needed to get this out. Are anyones brothers or sisters like this?
Or is it just me living in a totally disfuntional family!?!

:(

Thanks

[Fiction]

Cutting and Self harm :arrow: Family and Friends

Me and my sister don't get on either. She calls me things like "fat" and "ugly". There are arguements everyday in my household too. I don't have the whole talking behind my back thing with my sister, she usually says it to my face but i understand because i get it from my parents.
My sister also decided she has a crush on my boyfriend and tries to feel him up and kiss him which is not normal for an 11 year old O.o
You should just try and ignore your sisters, they probably don't mean what they say, they are probably just trying to hurt you and get at you. I know it's not easy to ignore them sometimes but not letting it bother you is the best way. If you really can't do that maybe you should have a proper talk with your mum. Instead of just telling her you hate them tell her what they say and do and how much it effects you.
I don't know if this is normal or not, but it is pretty similar to my house.
I'm always here if you need to talk :)

[whereismymind]

My older brother uses my younger brother to annoy me and play innocent, my older brother always says I have no friends, says girls i like look like dogs, he says im an idiot and that I'm fat and just generally makes me feel worthless. To be honest I think its normal to have annoying siblings just some are worse than others. Don't worry about them

[closed]

You must be feeling awful, I fight with my lil bro but it's nothing like that.
But i guess they are just jealous. you are beatiful, and they want to be like you... Don't let their juvenile acting hurt you. Try not to care even though it's hard. PM me if you ever need to talk.

[Love.Hate]

Thankyou everyone :)

I will try not to let there comments hurt me, But its hard :/

Kathy- Thankyou so much, Its nice to know my family are not the only ones that have problems, and thanks for the advice. :D
Liam- Your brother sounds really mean, you know im here if you need to talk :)
Aidan-Thankyou, i will try not to care about there comments :)

[nick]

Hi Fran.

After reading your post I checked your profile page and saw your photo there, for what its worth I would say that you are pretty. So ignore that for a start. This kind of stuff goes on in most families to be honest, I dont think yours is just disfunctional.

Try to rise above it and not let it get to you. Try not to give in to the urge to cut, its almost as if they've won when you do that. Maybe try to talk to your mum again sometime when you can get her alone, as calmly as you can, and just let her know how its affecting you.

[Love.Hate]

Thanks nick :)
I think i will talk to my mum, (minus the cutting part)
And i will try not to give in to the urge xx

[Fiction]

When you talk to your mum try to avoid saying you hate them etc. That'll make it sound alot more like a silly sibling arguement. Try to be calm and tell her how it's effecting you, not how horrible you think your sisters are.

[RAWWR]

sorry you're sisters are being so awful. for what its worth, i know the feeling, i remember once when i was really low, my social worker wanted to put me into care for my own safety, but her boss wouldnt let her. later that day, i walked past the kitchen, and heard my mum and my sister talking about how much hard work i am, and how they wished that i had gone into care :(
sometimes, family can be hard, you've just gotta try and ignore it and look at the positives.

[Love.Hate]

Ok kathy i will take that approach on it :)
Thanks for the reply nicole, I will look at the positives instead of the negatives,

Thankyou again to everyone that has commented i really appreciate it :D

[Punk_Kid]

I don't know what type of area you live in. When I'm really angry I can go in my back yard, load the shotgun and shoot at a non-living thing. Or if I want to beat the crap out of something I take my ax and go cut down a tree for firewood. To handle the stress you can try similar things and see if they help you.

As for siblings, I have a younger brother. We argue almost everyday. So that's how I've developed most of my coping methods.

And if they are saying stuff about in the next room then try turning on some music to drown them out and maybe read a book, make a puzzle or just whatever can calm you down that isn't stressful.

[Love.Hate]

Ok thanks lee i will put some music on next time,
As for the shot gun and axe thing i think that is illegal in the uk
so yea :P
Thankyou :)