Drama mamas and their busy lives.

[The Joker]

Holy fucking crap. These two female friends of mine are causing so much drama, crying in class and all the like. Apparently one of them told a teacher the other's issues, so now they are both getting counsellng...I don't know.

It ticks me off that they are just so open about it, and everyone asks them what's wrong. No one ever asks me how I'm doing. No one notices me when I'm about to break down. They think that all day long, I'm just that silly/happy guy who couldn't have a care in the world. That's the image I project, but if you try and look for a second, I'm someone in need of a listening ear. Two arms for a fucking hug. Something. I hate it when people flaunt things, when I can't flaunt them my self.

Which brings me to another issue. One of those friends from the above paragraphs considered me her best friend (still does, apparently), but as soon as this one guy came out to fucking everyone, she lingers all over him. Talking to him about everything. She's my friend, but the relationship revolves around her and I'm also jealous of her new fucking friend. He just fucking flaunts his sexuality to everyone, all the while it pains me to keep mine hidden.



i don't know.

[aussiecasper]

ever thought that mabey your going out of your way to not make a scene. to look happy and silly and care free becasue you don't want to open up to anybody? that mabey your scared that people will judge you, or you will look weak, or whatever your problem might be(i don't know, i don;t know you personaly) so you hide you true feeling and put on this act. and mabey your just jelious that these girls have the guts to express themselves more openly. so mabey you should stop complaining about how other people act and rexamen how you act instead? in order to fix your problem you have to be proactive, you cant just sit around hopeing that the world will come and find you and fix all your problem atomaticaly. you have to be like these girls, open up to someone once and a while, and not care what others think about it.(although, i would personaly not be a total drama queen about it.). anyway just some speculation, i right be wrong, i might be right , i don't know....but then again neither do you so its worth a shot.

as for the second part i got nothing, im not a people person and im not sure about that whole situation. so someone else back me up;)

[The Joker]

^Yeah. I guess I have a difficulty expressing myself, that's why I hate drama queens.

[Quick_Sylver]

I hate that girls are allowed to freak out and make a scene, but its wrong for guys to do it. And half the time, the girls are just doing it to get sympathy and that hugging action(Im not saying all, Im saying some). All I can say is to try and open up to someone you KNOW you can trust in real life. But at our age, thats hard to find. PM/VM at any time hun, I'll listen if you need it. :hug:

[steve1234]

I sort of know what you mean.

There is this girl in my friend group, who often has a moan about how shit her life is (despite her having a stereotypically 'perfect' life, and many people being jealous of her), and people always comfort her, and ask if she is alright.
Shes the type of person who joins all those depressing Facebook groups. I like her, she can be a good friend, but she really gets on my nerves sometimes.
Yet, I rarely let people know about my problems, but when I have done, they have always had a go at me for being depressing and told me to just cheer the fuck up. TBH, I don't really like sharing my problems, but I just hate the fact many people do it and everyone comforts them, yet when I do, everyone just thinks i'm moaning about nothing.

I know your two female friends seem to get all the attention, but if you got loads of attention, would you actually like it? I know I get annoyed, but I don't think I would really want everyone keep comforting me all the time.

[closed]

It's really annoying when people start making all this drama, especially if it's something common for both of you but they get all hte attentio and we don't.
I'm sure you chose to be their friend of some reason... So i'm sure you can count on the one with the openly-gay-boy.... I would suggest you to try and talk to her about what you feel. Not necceserily coming out, but simply tell her that you feel a little abandoned...
To makethis succeful you might wanna donate some personal information, so she will be more touched by your sayings... Like idk, that you are feeling really sad lately, or anything like that. She would cling to you... She would feel good if you said that you are a little jealous of that guy, because she's much with him... and then she is yours. Just be true to yourself and yours emotions and it will be fine :)
What i said sounds a little cold, but it would work.
Anyway good luck!
And contact me for anything, even the smallest thing! i'd love to help you! and i can always give you a hug... we even got few inds of them here :).. :hug: