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SoWhatsUp
November 8th, 2010, 03:04 PM
So I have this amazing girlfriend.
She's fantastic, and I love her.
We have been going out for over 2 months. On our 2 month-versary, I told her I loved her for the first time. And I meant it, because that was the day I knew I had begun to love her.
So yesterday, she came over to my house. We went out to my back yard, and I have this swing set / play set I used to play in when I was a child. We swung and kissed and it was just the most innocent thing ever, I felt so happy with her. :)
And today I get back home from school. Nobody is home. I go out to my back yard and I see the swing set. I sit on the swings and I just swing a little. My heart just feels empty because she's not there with me. I start to tear up, just because she isn't here. Not like balling, but just little ones. Even though it only happened yesterday, I have such fond memories of it already. I miss her, even though I saw her at school today.
Does anyone else know this feeling?
devilsheep
November 8th, 2010, 03:39 PM
Thats cute I guess but I think your taking it abit to seriously. If you cry and are upset just from one day of not being with her then I dont think your very happy with life
Fact
November 8th, 2010, 05:00 PM
So I have this amazing girlfriend.
She's fantastic, and I love her.
We have been going out for over 2 months. On our 2 month-versary, I told her I loved her for the first time. And I meant it, because that was the day I knew I had begun to love her.
So yesterday, she came over to my house. We went out to my back yard, and I have this swing set / play set I used to play in when I was a child. We swung and kissed and it was just the most innocent thing ever, I felt so happy with her. :)
And today I get back home from school. Nobody is home. I go out to my back yard and I see the swing set. I sit on the swings and I just swing a little. My heart just feels empty because she's not there with me. I start to tear up, just because she isn't here. Not like balling, but just little ones. Even though it only happened yesterday, I have such fond memories of it already. I miss her, even though I saw her at school today.
Does anyone else know this feeling?
It sounds like you're quite besotted with her ^^.
The only thing I would say to this is that you've become very attached to her very quickly - two months isn't a long time. Of course it's nice/healthy to develop relationships with people, but maybe just try to not be so dependant on her with regards to your happiness.
I get this feeling too with my boyfriend, right after I've talked to him, I almost feel like he's dead. I think it's quite normal to feel this way, but as I said, just be cautious so as to not over compensate yourself with your emotions.
I hope you two have a happy relationship together.
AutumnDae
November 8th, 2010, 05:29 PM
Ah, the days of young love. So quickly they form. And so quickly they can be broken.
Don't get too attached, take it from me. I got attached. Fast, too. Sucks when they don't feel the same back anymore and you're left alone picking up pieces for a while.
It's adorable that you like her that much though. :)
IAMWILL
November 8th, 2010, 09:25 PM
Awwwww.
Calm down bud, it's been two months.
Anyway though, like the others said, don't let yourself get to absorbed and obsessed with her. If you get to caught up with her life, you may forget about your own. It's fine if you don't spend every day with her, you are still together and it seems will be for a while. Be careful not to change yourself to much for her though, if that happens the relationship will go very downhill for you.
Rutherford The Brave
November 8th, 2010, 09:34 PM
Sometimes, the whole puppy dog thing is cute, but when you two cannot function as a whole without the other. I get mad sick. Seriously, kids these days. Ohhhhhh I haven't seen them in 3 hours. What happens when you get a serious job that recquires you to stay late, and shes already asleep by the time you get home. Are you going to be mad upset then?
SoWhatsUp
November 8th, 2010, 10:32 PM
Thanks guys for the responses. This has never happened to me until today, I guess yesterday was just one of the best days I have ever had with her.
I will try to not get too attached, because it will hurt a lot if something happens, thank you.
I do like her very much :)
ChicagoBlackhawksFan
November 10th, 2010, 02:11 PM
Dude I know how you feel I have a friend that moved. And I won't see her untill she's 18 and I'm 20. And I miss her :(
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