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iamafreak
November 8th, 2010, 10:04 AM
How many of you regret telling your parents? Or maybe your friends? Because they reacted wrongly or they don't trust you anymore. Or worst: they made you stop. So before you answer my following question.....think.....do you regret?

tombstone
November 8th, 2010, 10:27 AM
I've never told anyone, so i can't really relate to this. I can tell you they only "made you stop" because they love and care about you.

UnknownError
November 8th, 2010, 11:24 AM
I regret telling one person. Half the school mysteriously found out... :rolleyes:
But the other person I told took it great. :D

Nevermore
November 8th, 2010, 11:35 AM
I'm glad I told some people, others I wish I hadn't.

Harley Quinn
November 8th, 2010, 11:48 AM
I don't regret telling my friends. Why? because they are actually helping me, if i didn't tell people that i personally trusted and even when they did react badly, at least they cared enough to actually react. Non of my friends have really left me to deal with it on my own, so i don't think that i have anything to regret about telling them, i have a regret about even turning to self harm.

georgiamay
November 8th, 2010, 11:51 AM
I don't regret it, because they've been helping me.
I don't regret my parents knowing, because again, they're making me want to stop so I don't hurt them again.
But on the other hand, I've lost my dads trust now, which is the down side to it.

Love.Hate
November 8th, 2010, 02:05 PM
I have never really told anyone, one person saw though.
I dont regret him finding out because he went through similar
and is trying to help me come out of it. The only thing i do regret
is when i cut and upset him, so in aspects yes i regret it that he found out. :/

Kaius
November 8th, 2010, 02:07 PM
I regret starting i don't regret getting help, though i didnt tell anyone off my own accord the scars were seen on my arms and legs.

whereismymind
November 8th, 2010, 03:01 PM
I regret telling someone who got it spread around my year

publicsecrets
November 8th, 2010, 04:05 PM
I've only told two people; my best friend, and my closest guy mate (who I happen to be in love with, but anyway).

The girl's really protective over me, so she reacted quite badly, and actually said some really horrible stuff. I know it's only because she cares, but if I could rewind, I definitely wouldn't have told her.

The guy actually took it really well, and just asked me to let him know if I need to talk. So I guess it's just up to the individuals, it's quite a big secret to let someone else carry around I suppose..

Prinzessin_der_Nacht
November 8th, 2010, 05:14 PM
I regret telling my mom because she immediatly made me stop and told my dad, my grandma, and her best friends and made me feel so guilty... and it didn't help...

Punk_Kid
November 8th, 2010, 06:55 PM
I haven't told anyone yet. I might in a couple weeks if I can hang out with my best friend for Thanksgiving break:D

Don't know how he will take it but I don't trust my Mom, considering she was the reason I started in the first place:/

Sunshine Girl
November 8th, 2010, 07:58 PM
I didnt really get to tell my parents personally. I got checked into a psych ward for "chemical dependency" but at the examination I had to tell them about my scars. They are very permanent.
I regret not telling them sooner so I could of stoped before it got so bad.
But I regret them finding out because it made my mom blame herself.

My friends were cool. They just kinda seen them after I got out of rehab.
Everyone has their personal stories..a lot of my friends related to me.
So you know, your not alone.
At all.

YesterdaysNews
November 8th, 2010, 08:44 PM
I never actually told anyone. They either saw my cuts/scars, or like recently, saw a blade. I regret that the people who did find out, found out in the way they did but there's no going back. As for my mom finding out, I never wanted her to know. I knew my "life" wouldn't be the same, and it never was after she found out. It lead her to be even less trusting of me.

Fiction
November 9th, 2010, 12:18 PM
I regret telling some of my friends, but others i don't. At first i really regretted my boyfriend finding out, he threatened to break up with me but he got over this pretty quickly, and we're still together :)

allstar1995
November 9th, 2010, 04:57 PM
i regret my frinds and family finding out so much they want me to stop and i just cant none of them understand i think its only made things worse its not like they've really tryed to help me scince they found out. teachers at school know to and they do nothing its horrible

hardcore-smile
November 9th, 2010, 09:10 PM
I regret it, and don't.
I never told, my boyfriend did. And my parents sent me to this place for a week and it was hell! it was like a prision. Also, when i came back everything glass related or sharp was cleaned out of my room, i had no mirrors, nothing. And the knifes in the kitchen were hidden. so yeah i regret it. But also i am thankful that i got help or i would still be doing it today.

idk girl
November 9th, 2010, 09:20 PM
I regret telling my parents. They don't understand or try to understand and think why i do it is stupid. But one of my friends knows and she is really supportive- all the time 24/7!

closed
November 10th, 2010, 12:18 AM
I told my cousin, and she got it great.
But actually i don't care for the whole world to know as long as my parents don't.
I don't care being called EMO or anything like that.
-Today most of the people are angry & arrogant jerks, so there is not reason we would let them have any influence on us...

AppealToReason
November 10th, 2010, 01:13 AM
I regret telling friends because they didn't take me seriously. Family hasn't found out yet (thank god).

Mike321
November 10th, 2010, 01:58 PM
I've never told my parents about my cutting
But I do regret telling one of my friends who then decided to tell everyone in our year at school