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Haven
November 7th, 2010, 06:26 PM
I've tried to stay out of my house as much as I could the last few days, but things have been getting somewhat bad again lately.

The fighting is increasing, the yelling, the screaming, everything. It's going to drive me nuts, and I honestly can't stand when this happens. The feeling that everything in your family is going to break simultaneously. When things like this happen, my parents move into a mood of 'lets buy their love' and do everything they can to get my attention, then they rant and shit-talk the other parent.

I honestly don't want to be in the middle of this, and I don't want to listen to any of this stupid crap any longer. I want to tell them how badly this affects me, but I can't.

But most of all? I just want them to finally reach the inevitable conclusion of their relationship already, rather than prolonging it.

It's making me sick, it's making me feel unwanted, and it's putting me in this dreary mood once again. And I won't go back there again.

dsoigesug.
rantish i guess.
sorry.

Fact
November 7th, 2010, 06:56 PM
Don't be sorry for expressing your emotions ^^

Why can't you tell him how badly this affects you? Surely if your parents knew exactly how you felt then they'd reconsider their actions?

I can't help you much on the parental break up part though because I don't have that problem.
Although it directly affects you, there's not a lot you can do about their relationship problems.
However, like I said, you can at least try to tell them how you feel? Maybe if you did that, they'd stop fighting for your sake.

Hope this helps

Theatheist of doom
November 7th, 2010, 07:46 PM
Just try telling them and see what happens hope the best for you. :D

Quick_Sylver
November 9th, 2010, 03:47 AM
Just be blunt. Are you closer to one parent or the other? If you are, I suggest saying to them, "Look, if you guys cant get along, why are you together?" I ended up having to do that with my mother, and I managed to get it to end. Sometimes you just gotta take action, even if it hurts. :hug: It'll be hard, but you can do it. Afterall, you've gotten this far havent you? :)