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[TySpeedy]

Okay so last night my brother had 3 friends over. All of them were drunk including him, and one other friend wasn't (They are all 18). And later that night everyone was asleep, beside this one guy, who I'm cool with and think is hot. And he was eating. And then after that he was singing these sexy songs.. And grabbing his crouch and rubbing it.. And I couldn't resist so I grabbed him for him and he just smiled and ran to the wall and started humping it. Now he was more sober... Then after he did that, he asked if I ever thought about experimenting with other guys. I told him no, but I have. And I really want to ask him if I could do stuff to him... I think he will say yes... But I don't know... How should I ask him? :\

[Fact]

Sounds like an interesting time you had last night...

Even if you think he would say yes, you might want to consider getting to know him more away from your brother if you're seriously thinking about asking him? Try to make sure that he is definitely serious about experimenting with you...

Also it depends on how you feel about your age too? You're 14 and he's 18, it's quite a big gap and could make things a little awkward IMO.

Hope I don't get shot down for being in the guy's forum >.<
I've given you some points to think about anyway.

Good luck with this...

[emt.Cam]

I would most definitely agree with Fact. She made some very important points that I would recommend considering. I would wait until he is sober because alcohol can impair ones judgment and may just create more problems for you both. Also, I'd wait until you can get away from your brother since it's his friend. It may of just created a cluster if he found out: especially while at your house with him. Both of those things can certainly be arranged but otherwise, I don't see a problem with it. I wouldn't "do" anything with anyone unless I liked them and could see myself being with them in the future but that's how I would take things.

I've rushed through this but if you have further questions or want advice, feel free to PM me. Best of luck (:

[TySpeedy]

Thanks guys. And Fact, I already have gotten to know him, we are like pals. Plus he is all sexual 24/7, but that night was the first time ever that I touched him, and he liked it... But I don't know. I'll see...

[Fact]

Thanks guys. And Fact, I already have gotten to know him, we are like pals. Plus he is all sexual 24/7, but that night was the first time ever that I touched him, and he liked it... But I don't know. I'll see...

In that case, I guess it's your chance to go for it!? :D
Provided you're both comfortable with it, which it sounds like you are.
Good luck :)

[nick]

You might want to keep in mind that with him being 18 if you got caught he could get into serious trouble for sexual activity with a minor. Maybe its not fair to put him in that situation.

[TySpeedy]

True Nick.. :\

[Fact]

True Nick.. :\

Like I said in my first post, if it makes you feel awkward then maybe you might want to revise the situation?

[TySpeedy]

I don't really feel ackward... I just don't want to get in trouble...

[Fact]

I don't really feel ackward... I just don't want to get in trouble...

In which case, maybe you shouldn't.
You don't want to feel guilty/panic if you go through with experimenting and then decide it was a bad idea and being scared of someone finding out afterwards.
Of course it's up to you and him, but you don't want a fling or whatever to turn into a legal allegation.

[TySpeedy]

Yeah... Mmk. Thanks! :D

[emt.Cam]

Don't necessarily assume that he can get in trouble: too many people think that 18 is age of consent when it's not. It all depends on your state laws.

In Maine, at ages 14-15, one may be "intimate" with someone UP TO 5 years older than themselves. The older person may not be a teacher, counselor, within their school district -if enrolled in school- At age 16, one may consent to their sexual actions with someone at any age as long as they are not a teacher or school official within their district.

[TopGear]

I would have to agree with Nick here, Just be careful when getting in with someone who is 18, and for being 14, that could cause a lot of unneeded troubles for both of you. I would wait and don't do anything you might regret.

~Drew

[Fact]

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