What does this make me?

[whereismymind]

Basically I've had this on my mind for a while and just need to ask about it. I've had girlfriends in the past but I've known this guy for ages and is a great friend but since year 6 at my school I started liking him in a similar way to the way when I like girls and I sometimes imagine kissing him but I haven't told him about me feeling like this. Does this make me bi curios or just bi?

[Syvelocin]

Depends how you want to take it. If it's just this guy though, I'd vouch for bi curious. My first same sex crush led to more same sex crushes, since it was the first one that opened my eyes. There's a great possibility that you're bi. But for now, I would only consider you curious.

[Ender]

Basically I've had this on my mind for a while and just need to ask about it. I've had girlfriends in the past but I've known this guy for ages and is a great friend but since year 6 at my school I started liking him in a similar way to the way when I like girls and I sometimes imagine kissing him but I haven't told him about me feeling like this. Does this make me bi curios or just bi?

No one here can tell you who or what you are, simply because we arent you. Give it time, I'm sure you will figure out your sexuality in time. I was curious for a long time, and I eventually figured out I was bi.

[whereismymind]

ok its only this guy at the mo.

[nick]

Well like Trae has already said, you will need to find the answer for yourself, we cant really tell you. But the fact that you are talking about kissing rather than just some kind of sexual experimentation suggests to me that there is a good chance you may be bi. Dont be in any rush to "decide", labels are stupid anyway.

[whereismymind]

ok thanks for the advice I just had it on my mind for ages

[closed]

The important thing is you being ok with yourself.
Lots of people confuse love\attraction with sympathy. Many people think they fall for they friends when actually they are no more than just a friend to them.
You can't even try to define your sexuallity - at 13 it's too early, and if you define yourself now you'll change your sexuality quite a few times.
-Just stay open minded, don't be afraid to try new things, and ALWAYS do what's best for you.
Good Luck.

[mmmark1985]

I think you're just a bit curious about it. I have a huge thing for my best fried to and that made me start looking at other guys to. I guess its just how you think of them and if its just thinking abosut guys for a little while or a long while might mean you're more bi or not 100% straight. I dont think many people are 100% straight anyway. Do you think you can talk to him about Maybe he is thinking the same thing. Just be careful and dont say to much at first just in case he freaks.

[coleman8r 77]

you're just a bit curious