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Schnope
November 6th, 2010, 04:40 AM
So I am in sorta like a friendship group between these two people who are like my best friends. We really get along well at school, and I know that they are genuinely my friends but I sometimes feel left out. I've been thinking that it is probably the gender difference as both of them are female and Im a male. But it is bothering me, they would go out and I'm not trying to be jealous or anything but they would never invite me to anywhere. They told me that we are best friends, but we hardly hang out together and when they wanna talk about personal things they never go to me, and they just go to each other, i feel as if that I am just a third part to the wheel.

So here is the thing, I want to talk to them privately, just us 3, about this situation and how I feel. But how should I go about it, and I'm worried that they might take it the wrong way. I really have no idea what to do..

Kaius
November 6th, 2010, 04:43 AM
The best thing to do is just be honest with them, don't sugar coat it because they might misunderstand. If they do take it the wrong way then really it just goes to show what sort of friends they are. Is there a quiet place at school you can go, or maybe invite them over to your house? I think your house is best bet cause you can guarantee at least one person will overhear you.

Theatheist of doom
November 7th, 2010, 07:54 PM
Yeah it seems like 90% of the answers on this part of the forum just come down to TALK TO THE PERSON ABOUT IT