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Javsters000
November 5th, 2010, 10:20 PM
okay well as you read for the topic im in a relationship with this girl but i want to jerk off and watch gay porn! is this normal or what????? Please help me! thank you!

TopGear
November 5th, 2010, 10:25 PM
I personally think it is fine for you to masturbate while in a relationship. There is no rule in the book saying once your dating someone you can't masturbate anymore. With the porn, I don't know, Some people call that cheating. Like Eye candy or cheating but I really don't see it that way. But do what ever floats ur boat man. You could also just live by " what she don't see, don't hurt her." just in this case.

good luck.

~Drew

yoda
November 5th, 2010, 10:34 PM
I really don't see it as a big deal, cheating idk. Just don't let her find out and i think you would be fine. But this is just me.

Andredavid
November 5th, 2010, 10:57 PM
I think there is nothing wrong with it i am sorta doing the same thing.

obknobe
November 5th, 2010, 11:26 PM
I think it's cool!

counterpoint
November 5th, 2010, 11:47 PM
Well, you have to ask yourself: 'Do I like men, women, or both equally?' You could simply have feelings for both sexes, but prefer women over men in the sense of physical intimacy. Only you can decide your sexuality... all we can really do here is offer advice on how to help you discover it.

Best of luck!

Harley Quinn
November 6th, 2010, 04:00 AM
It's normal to want to jack off to gay porn while in a relationship, you have ask yourself what would my girlfriend think, would she think I was cheating, is this right for me to be doing? Things like that, at the end of the day though, its your choice no one else and if you want to jack off, jack off the only person stopping you from doing it is yourself.

football
November 6th, 2010, 03:31 PM
Perfectly normal.
I have a girlfriend and we have sex regularly and i STILL jack off to gay porn. it's just whatever you prefer my friend.

nick
November 6th, 2010, 03:39 PM
Unless you are getting regular sex then it would be completely unreasonable for any girlfriend to expect you not to wank the same as at any other time. What you choose to watch at the time is irrelevant and only your business. Its definitely not cheating.

man with freaky plan
November 6th, 2010, 03:45 PM
no, there is nothing wrong with it

Jerkface327
November 6th, 2010, 03:51 PM
I think its normal

guil1214
November 7th, 2010, 02:30 PM
There is nothing wrong with that. I have the same problem. I am basicly never with my GF and whenever there is nobody home i GO FOR IT!!!!

Mike 7s
November 7th, 2010, 03:11 PM
Normal.. I want to do this to except for the gay porn bit.

SamB
November 7th, 2010, 03:57 PM
I was in a long distance relationship and was doing this as we never saw each other. I felt bad at the time but what happens happens.

Lightman
November 7th, 2010, 04:45 PM
Perfectly normal

jonjon77777
November 7th, 2010, 07:17 PM
its fine, not cheating its just porn so y not?