Still?

[differentduck]

I know this girl.

She was in my homeroom in grade seven, but got switched, however her locker was still next to mine. We would occasionally exchange words, but that's it.

In grade 8, she was in my homeroom, and all my classes too. I still never talked to her. If I did, it was a small conversation.

In grade 9, once again she was in my homeroom and every single one of my classes. We became close, and I developed a little crush. We grew even closer, and to this day we are very good friends.

I still like her, a year later. Over the summer, we didn't see each other once, and I thought I had gotten over her. But apparently not. The second I saw her when school went back in session, I was overwhelmed with butterflies.

We have no classes together, so we make attempts to hang out during lunch twice a week. I told her that I liked her, and it actually made us better friends. We hung out in a park by my school just recently, and I got butterflies and told her that and she kept saying how cute it was.

I kinda needed to get this out. I have no intentions to ask her out, because I would hate to jeopardize the friendship we have right now.

Thanks for reading, hahah, and anyone else want to share something similar?

I have posted something like this in the past and I guess this is an "update" to the situation :P

[Violet]

Hmm. Try to tell her how you feel. I'm not really sure though..

[Fact]

It sounds like the pair of you have a really nice blossoming friendship ^^
I appreciate your point about not wanting to enter an intimate relationship for fear of ruining your friendship. Maybe what you said is best and that, for now at least, you should remain being good friends (:
Maybe you could talk to her about this, though? She might express similar feelings which would bring you even closer as then you'd have common ground. Beware, though, as if she'd like a relationship and you wouldn't then it could drive her away...

Good luck with this! You two sound like really cute friends :D

[aussiecasper]

i am totally feel for ya. i am in this situation too. i went to school with this girl since kindergarden. so i have known her for about say hmm hmm hmm.....ten and a half, eleven years......and im 15, so do the math on that one, its a long time for me. anyway in 8th grade i really figured out i liked her and tried to tell her but just made a fool of myself. but we are still friends and i still have a huge crush on her but im too scared to ask her out because ill look stupid(im just that akward haha) and it might screw our relationship we have now up and im not in a good place in my life to drive away one of my best and only friends.

so i cant really give you any advice without being hypocrtical, but mabey you have more guts and charm than me. i would sieze the opprotunity that you have with this girl and if it dosent work out i doubt she will hate you for it.