my best friend... and me?

[BoarderGirl]

ok, so i'm really bi-courious. i have been for a few years now. the only person i could think of exparamenting with would be my best friend. her and i are really close and recently we were talking about a bi girl in our class. we both agree that its brave to be out and we've both thought aout kissing other girls (this is where i was thinking about saying something allong the lines of "y don't we try it together?") but she went on to say that she'd never do it at a party "or something" making up a senario where she was drunk. this is what confuses me... was she hinting at doing it in a non-public place or just not @ all (she made it sound like the first). and if so should i try and get her alone and kiss? anway let me know... thanks:D

[ShatteredWings]

messing around with (straight) friends is usually a good way to end friendships
Just sayin'.

She seems a little more interested, since she brought up the idea a bit too if I understood correctly.
Ask directly?

[BoarderGirl]

[QUOTE=ShatteredWings;1065358]messing around with (straight) friends is usually a good way to end friendships
Just sayin'.

well she said that she HAS whougth about being bi. and thanks for the comment. does everyone agree with this? has anyone been in the same situation? what happened?

[yoda]

I would never try and do anything with a close friend, not unless you night want to lose them. I say don't do it and look around for someone else that would try.

[obknobe]

She is feeling you out as you are feeling her out. Why not say conversationally: "Could we try a little kiss on the lips between just the two of us? We don't have to tell anybody and it might be fun!" If she is interested she will say "Sure! Why not?" And if she thinks it is a bad idea, she will make a face or something and you just laugh the whole thing off. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Please send me a private message after the fact, OK?

[mmmark1985]

I think that for her saying that she might or she'd have to be drunk first means that she would but is scared about you freaking on her and telling everybody. Me and my best friend do it but we dont tell anybody and its just us that know about it so if you do something make sure she knows its a private thing and just between you two. When were with our other friends we pretend we dont do anything.

Also you said shes thought about kissing a girl, so maybe bring it up again or watch something with a lesbian or bi stuff like a movie or tv show and see what happens.