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HeroesAndCons
November 5th, 2010, 10:18 AM
my friend swears alot
im not saying i dont swear but i dont do it overly
she does
its starting to get irratating and she talks about male and female genitalia and i find it gross
and immature
i could see why she has a mouth like a truck driver because her mom dont beleve in censorship
her 10 year old brother has a mouth like a truck driver too
she is a nice person but how do i say "stop being derogotory" but in a nice way?
HALP >.<

Harley Quinn
November 5th, 2010, 10:24 AM
Just say that you don't like the way that she is speaking, it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she is your friend she will understand that you mean well and will try to change it, but it's not really her fault. It's the mothers as she hasnt taught her children that it is wrong to speak in such a way. I know that I myself can have terrible language, and my friends are no better but if I was told that it was annoying or upsetting id try hard to change that.

Blood
November 5th, 2010, 12:35 PM
Just tell her straight up. "Look, we're good friends, but your immature attitude and the amount in which you curse is starting to seriously get on my nerves. I'm starting to not want to be around you. Can you cut it out?"

If she's a good friend she'll stop. Or, she might get offended. So try to say it nicely.

ShatteredWings
November 5th, 2010, 02:44 PM
you can

1) leave the friendship
2) ask her to cut it out explaining it annoys/bothers/offends you

Theatheist of doom
November 6th, 2010, 12:54 PM
Execution!!!! No I'm kidding, try saying it in a funny way so that you tell her without hurting her feelings and still gets the point