Girl problems

[green]

So I have a girl that I like and she knows that i feel thisway. The thing is she says that she just wants to be friends. Is there anyway that I can get her to go out with me or should I move on. If I need to move on what can I do to attract girls? I'm not the fittest but I'm riding my bike to and from school each day, doing karate 2 times a week and lifting weights sort of. What can I do to be more attractive to girls?

[nick]

I think you should move on, if you pester her about it once she's already said no you might end up losing her as a friend. I doubt if you need to do anything different to attract girls, just be patient, doesnt always happen to plan.

[Fact]

Girls become attracted to you for reasons other than your physical appearance, although ofcourse this influences pretty much everyone's first impression.
It sounds like she made it clear she wasn't interested - so like Nick said, move on from her now.
In general, the main things that a girl wants are someone who is funny, interesting and caring.
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=85904
Read that thread maybe? It's a small sample, but it's better than nothing.

Hope this helped :D

[Paladino]

If she doesnt want to go out with you, then there is nothing much you can do. You should stay friends with her and see what happens from there, like nick said, if you keep asking her about it you could end up losing her as a friend.

[Art_dude]

Ditto to what Nick and Symone said :D

Us guys don't deal well with rejection, so when it happens to us we feel we need to win over their approval - but guess what? It's a big waste of your time. We should all try to be more outgoing, and more approachable, but we should never change something core about ourselves that defines who we are. And as cliche as it sounds, being yourself will attract girls. Girls like guys who are confident and have a strong sense of identity. if you're comfortable in your own skin and confident in showing that to others, you'll see a big improvement in the way girls (and guys) approach you.

As for the physical stuff, it sounds like a fun routine you have. Being active is a great way to feel good about ourselves, especially solo physical exercise like running or in your case biking, as well as martial arts which is a lot about pushing and competing with yourself and not others.