Would you still consider me a virgin?

[matt.brown014]

So one time I had a jack off buddy and we experimented a little with oral sex. Am I still a virgin after that?

[Church]

Yup, less there was actual penetration involved your still a virgin.

[CaliLax]

im not sure, but i think oral sex does count as sex.... so i may be wrong, but i dont think ur a virgin, congrats lol

[LittleMonsterMike]

o oral sex doesn't count because theirs no pentration so your still a virgin

[nick]

I agree, with no penetration you are still a virgin. Think if you were a girl, in many cultures a broken hymen is still regarded as the test/sign of losing a virginity, you're never going to break a hymen from a bj.

[The Dark Lord]

No, if you had experienced penetration then you would have lost your virginity. Sorry.

[jonjon77777]

yess u r still a virgin

[IMonfire]

Blow jobs aren't considered as a form of sex so you're still a virgin!

[The_Average_Kid]

In my opinion "oral sex" is still "sex".

[nick]

In my opinion "oral sex" is still "sex".
To me thats like calling a hand job "hand sex". There is sexual contact, its a sexual act, but its not sex.

[Clawhammer]

I consider oral penetration to count as penetration, and since it's oral "sex," it's sex. But it's opinion. Why does it matter in the first place?

[nick]

I consider oral penetration to count as penetration, and since it's oral "sex," it's sex. But it's opinion. Why does it matter in the first place?
I dont see it. Say a girl gives you a blowjob. Are you saying she's no longer a virgin, I just dont accept that. Her vagina hasnt been entered, she's still a virgin, its as simple as that to me. So she didnt have sex. Well if she didnt have sex nor did you.

[Clawhammer]

I dont see it. Say a girl gives you a blowjob. Are you saying she's no longer a virgin, I just dont accept that. Her vagina hasnt been entered, she's still a virgin, its as simple as that to me. So she didnt have sex. Well if she didnt have sex nor did you.

I see it as both people participating in a sexual act, and I see virginity as lacking participation in any sexual act involving genitalia. But again, just my opinion, don't see why it would really matter, virginity is just a label.

[nick]

I see it as both people participating in a sexual act, and I see virginity as lacking participation in any sexual act involving genitalia. But again, just my opinion, don't see why it would really matter, virginity is just a label.
So that would include a hand job then, definitely involves genitalia?

[Clawhammer]

So that would include a hand job then, definitely involves genitalia?

Yup. Pretty much.

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

lol its a sexual act but techcaly your still a virgin lol that a hard one cuz you are then your not

[Kaius]

You're a virgin until you partake in some kind of Intercourse. The only things that can mean you've lost your virginity are vaginal or anal sex.

[Jacob1993]

If you did not have penetration sex (either anal or vaginal) u r still a virgin

[keidriantiger]

You are no longer a virgin. You had sex. However you are a virgin to anal sex.

[The_Average_Kid]

I'm confused :S

[Alex_.-]

i don't count oral sex as "actual" sex .....theres a different mindset between the two

you need to have anal or vaginal sex to loose your virginity imo)

[matt.brown014]

Just to clarify for people, when I say "experimented," I mean that we sucked each other's penises, but they weren't full on blowjobs. Neither of us did it long enough to have an orgasm or anything. Does this make things clearer or muddier? Haha.

[TopGear]

I think it is rather clear that most people still think your a virgin, And I agree that your still a virgin.

[michel513]

I'm sure oral sex doesn't count unless you actually did it with him up the butt.

[keidriantiger]

Well, it really depends on your definition of the term. My chosen one is if you had sex, you are no longer a virgin.

And really, what's so bad about not being? I am eagerly awaiting the day until I am no longer one.

[LDK Ven]

depends... boys are not the same as girls. it was a sexual act. i think youre not..