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unlucky-star
November 2nd, 2010, 09:55 AM
Okay so I'm a really shy person when it comes to affection like hugging and get nervous about kissing boys and stuff. I think it's because I'm a little self-conscious but mostly because I'm not used to affection from many people, I was wondering if there was anything I could do to get over this?

Syvelocin
November 2nd, 2010, 10:51 AM
Expose yourself to it more. Start hugging people yourself. If you're around people and being affectionate like that more often, you'll get used to it and become less shy about it.

Azunite
November 2nd, 2010, 11:55 AM
So, as a boy I mıght be able to help..
Girls should never be shy about hugging and kissing. Boys would always want to hug or kiss girls, and we are too shy to do it.
Try to get closer with boys, then you could just hug and kiss them, no problem. They wouldn't find it awkward

closed
November 2nd, 2010, 02:03 PM
I'm shy too (even though now less than b4). You just need to know that guyz can be shy as hell too. If you find a guy like you, it will be much easier. Try making steps to overcome the shyness. Don't just go and kiss the first dude you see on street, because it's sexual assault, but go step by step. try talking to guy, brake the physic barrier, and so you'll get over it. after first time it will not so uncomfortable.

Kahn
November 2nd, 2010, 07:40 PM
Okay so I'm a really shy person when it comes to affection like hugging and get nervous about kissing boys and stuff. I think it's because I'm a little self-conscious but mostly because I'm not used to affection from many people, I was wondering if there was anything I could do to get over this?

You just need to keep doing it. Eventually, you'll become comfortable with it. For some people it comes naturally, but others like yourself may take time. Try to become more open, and less kept to yourself.

There really isn't anything that can all of a sudden make you fine with hugging and kissing. Like I said, it takes time.