Your ideal man/woman?

[Solace]

I'm 17 and my ideal woman would be 14 years old, have black hair, and look very cute. She wouldn't be tall, but she wouldn't be super short either, so about average or slightly below average height for a 14 year old girl. She'd be emo and a girl gamer. She wouldn't have a low self esteem or cut herself, and we would have a lot in common. Of course she'd also be single until we started dating and she would like me, a lot.

[TopGear]

Don't you think 14 is a little young? I know 4 years doesn't seem that much but at 17 that is a bit of a large gap.

[Korashk]

Why is this thread in this forum?

Don't you think 14 is a little young? I know 4 years doesn't seem that much but at 17 that is a bit of a large gap.
Statutory rape isn't a real crime, what he's talking about is equivalent to a senior dating a freshman, maybe a sophmore.

[TopGear]

Statutory rape isn't a real crime,

What? are you kidding me? You are out of your mind.

http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-R-0376.htm

By the looks at what time you can be doing for Statutory rape, It looks pretty real to me.

[Korashk]

What? are you kidding me? You are out of your mind.

I think you're misunderstanding what I meant by that. I know it's a crime, but it's a stupid one that shouldn't exist.

[TopGear]

Again, what?!? You are killing me! So your telling me that you're perfectly ok with a 40 year old man/woman having sex with a 13-17 year old boy/girl? If you had a little girl would you think that was okay? would you let your little baby girl go out at the young age of 14 years old and have sex? With or without consent?

[Korashk]

Again, what?!? You are killing me! So your telling me that you're perfectly ok with a 40 year old man/woman having sex with a 13-17 year old boy/girl?
Yes.

If you had a little girl would you think that was okay?
I wouldn't like it, but I would still think it should be allowed.

would you let your little baby girl go out at the young age of 14 years old and have sex?
14 year olds are not babies, and yes.

With or without consent?
Without consent it's regular rape, which should still be illegal. Age is essentially a number with no bearing on whether or not one is mature enough to consent to an action.

[Solace]

Why is this thread in this forum?


Statutory rape isn't a real crime, what he's talking about is equivalent to a senior dating a freshman, maybe a sophmore.

Yeah, seriously, I know seniors who date 7th and 8th graders even.

[Peace God]

you should change the title to "Statutory Rape"...this is getting interesting

[Solace]

Yes.


I wouldn't like it, but I would still think it should be allowed.


14 year olds are not babies, and yes.


Without consent it's regular rape, which should still be illegal. Age is essentially a number with no bearing on whether or not one is mature enough to consent to an action.

14 year olds aren't babies.

[TopGear]

Listen, at age 13/14 they are still children! They don't look at things in the long run and what sex can do to a underaged child. You have be a fucked up person to be having sex with a 13/14 year old at the age of 40.

[TopGear]

Yeah, seriously, I know seniors who date 7th and 8th graders even.

Yes, and when they turn 18, and they mess around with that 7th or 8th grader. Thats called Statutory Rape. BTW Statutory Rape is a real crime that can put you in prison from 5 years to life. Is it really worth it.?

[Korashk]

Listen, at age 13/14 they are still children! They don't look at things in the long run and what sex can do to a underaged child.
Doesn't change the fact that a 13/14 yr. old is able to give adequate consent for an action. Hell, a lot of adults don't even do that.

You have be a fucked up person to be having sex with a 13/14 year old at the age of 40.
I agree, sort of. Doesn't change the fact that actions undergone between consenting individuals. A lot of things that are fucked up are legal. Engaging in actions related to Coprophilia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coprophilia) for example.

Yes, and when they turn 18, and they mess around with that 7th or 8th grader. Thats called Statutory Rape. BTW Statutory Rape is a real crime that can put you in prison from 5 years to life. Is it really worth it.?
I don't accept the validity of law based on the fact that it's the law. Statutory rape isn't a real crime.

[Solace]

Listen, at age 13/14 they are still children! They don't look at things in the long run and what sex can do to a underaged child. You have be a fucked up person to be having sex with a 13/14 year old at the age of 40.

13/14 aren't really children, once they become teens and hit puberty, I'm not sure you can really call them children

[TopGear]

Hey buddy, Doesn't matter what you think. Sorry buts it true. A law is a law, And if you go out and have sex with an underaged person you will get charged with Statutory rape and you will go to prison. Its simple as that. Find a person you age. how hard is that.

Im sorry but you have really pissed me off about this.

When I get older, I plan on having children, but knowing that there are people out there like you, it scares me.

[Korashk]

Hey buddy, Doesn't matter what you think. Sorry buts it true. A law is a law, And if you go out and have sex with an underaged person you will get charged with Statutory rape and you will go to prison. Its simple as that. Find a person you age. how hard is that.

Im sorry but you have really pissed me off about this.

When I get older, I plan on having children, but knowing that there are people out there like you, it scares me.

You seem to think I have a fetish for young girls. This is not the case. When you say "people like me" you meant to say "middle aged men that engage in sexual relations with teenagers." I am not one of these, nor am I an advocate for the activity. When you say "people like me" you're really saying that people who value the individual freedom of others scare you. I just realize that my qualms should have no bearing when discussing the issue.

[TopGear]

I don't care how old you are, if you are over the age of 18 and have a sexual relationship with a boy/girl who hasn't hit the consent age then you have broken a law;Statutory rape. This law that you seem to have care nothing for will put you in prison from 5 to life man. What the fuck is in your head that lets this seem ok? Does sex with a 13/14 year old really worth all that time in prison?

Also at age 13/14 no one is ready for sex, I don't care who you are, but your not going to tell me a 13/14/15/ or even a 16 year old is physically or mentally ready for sex. I think not.

Am I the only one who sees a problem with this?

[Korashk]

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Okay, I'll ask you a question. What does turning 18 magically change in you that makes you ready for sex?

[TopGear]

nothing, there are people who are 18 and still aren't fully ready for an sexual relationship. But when you turn 18 your an adult in which you can make your own choices.

[Korashk]

nothing
Okay, so why should an individual be forced to wait until they are 18 in order to legally make decisions that affect their life?

Also, just noticed an inaccurate fact about one of your above posts. One is physically ready for sex once puberty hits, age has nothing to do with it.

[TopGear]

You only took one word out of my comment anyone can butcher another mans words.

It's not inaccurate, Not everyone is fully developed at 13/14. Age does have to do with it.

[Korashk]

You only took one word out of my comment anyone can butcher another mans words.
I didn't butcher your words. I quoted the only section of your post relevant to our discussion. You agreed that there is nothing about an arbitrary age limit that is significant when determining whether one is capable of legitimately making decisions.

I am challenging the necessity for an age limit in favor of the court system determining whether consent was given in a case where said consent could be the difference between the act being acceptable or the act being criminal.

It's not inaccurate, Not everyone is fully developed at 13/14. Age does have to do with it.
Yes it is because puberty determines physical, sexual maturity. It's not about age. The point isn't all that important anyways.

[Solace]

Hey buddy, Doesn't matter what you think. Sorry buts it true. A law is a law, And if you go out and have sex with an underaged person you will get charged with Statutory rape and you will go to prison. Its simple as that. Find a person you age. how hard is that.

Im sorry but you have really pissed me off about this.

When I get older, I plan on having children, but knowing that there are people out there like you, it scares me.

Dude, I'm not a pedo or anything. I would never date anyone under the age of 13. And I wouldn't have sex with them until well, it was legal, and she felt as though she's ready, and we are in love.

[Solace]

When you're 15 (14 or 16 some places), you can legally have sex.

[Solace]

Does sex with a 13/14 year old really worth all that time in prison?

Depends on how hot she is.

[Korashk]

When you're 15 (14 or 16 some places), you can legally have sex.
[Typically] not with people over the age of 18, legally.

[Solace]

nothing, there are people who are 18 and still aren't fully ready for an sexual relationship. But when you turn 18 your an adult in which you can make your own choices.

Actually most 13 year olds are capable of having sex and even getting pregnant.

[Church]

My ideal girl has long, red hair. Green eyes, like 5' 6", nice, good humor, country. Sweet, good cook, good house keeper, likes to hunt. Can get down and dirty with the boys (not that you pervs, that helps though.)

[Dorsum Oppel]

i didn't butcher your words. I quoted the only section of your post relevant to our discussion. You agreed that there is nothing about an arbitrary age limit that is significant when determining whether one is capable of legitimately making decisions.

I am challenging the necessity for an age limit in favor of the court system determining whether consent was given in a case where said consent could be the difference between the act being acceptable or the act being criminal.


Yes it is because puberty determines physical, sexual maturity. It's not about age. The point isn't all that important anyways.


OH WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDS
WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDS?~

Everybody now!

[Sith Lord 13]

[Typically] not with people over the age of 18, legally.

It depends on location. Different states have different ages of consent. Canada and several US states say someone who is 16 can have sex with a 110 year old without legal issue.

[Number02]

My ideal girl? ..... Shal.

Or an older/English version of <NAME REMOVED> Paha, I ain't sayin' who, cos I'm that mature.

Yeah... medium height, medium build, she HAS to be funny and warm, otherwise I'd die/get bored

[Kaius]

:arrow2: Relationships and Dating

Don't you think 14 is a little young? I know 4 years doesn't seem that much but at 17 that is a bit of a large gap.

its 3 years and no tbh i don't. My girlfriend is 3 years younger than me and we're perfectly fine how we are. Tbh it depends on more than just age. Its maturity and things like that.

Also the age of consent doesn't always have to have anything to do with it, not all relationships are orientated around sex. Sure, loads are but not all.

[AutumnDae]

Give me a cowboy. Tanned, tall, muscular, with a southern accent and a great smile. It will make my heart melt in an instant.

[Daniel_]

My age, not super short but not as tall as me, dark hair, pretty, a nice "don't fuck with me" attitude but also a good sense of humor and not trashy or anything like that.

[Andrew0017]

My ideal woman is around my age and has honey blonde hair and hazel eyes. She's 5'6" and has curves (none of this "size 0 fad" crap, no offense) but still slim. She is naturally gorgeous, sensitive, loyal and kind. Not trashy/fake at all. Down to earth and caring. Different from other girls/stands out...
Everything I could want in a woman I found in my girlfriend. <3

[Jess]

He has to be around my age. 16 - 17 yrs old. I don't care what he looks like as long as he's kind, honest, loving and all that. taller than me and also understands me and takes it easy.

if I'm ever going to marry him, he has to understand that I DON'T WANT CHILDREN.

[and he won't me staying a.......virgin (gah)]

[UnknownError]

This is my ideal woman: ;)
http://www.youtube.com/user/xBextahx <3

[Rex99]

My ideal girl...someone who looks cute and hot at the same time without trying to hard, slightly shorter than me, knows how to have fun but only around me, nice long hair and doesn't swear, or only at appropriate times.

[NVerson]

My ideal man would be skinny, a bit pale, not tall (around 175?), around my age, definitely not muscular, a bit of an emo feel, and with long hair.....

But then, it's just my "ideal" man meaning that it's hard to find one and is even harder to find one that will love me so...

and My ideal woman... I don't know really lol