Pushy ?

[Azunite]

I am struggling with this conflict " Am I pushy on girls ? "
Well most of the time I dont think so because even if I dont talk to girls too much or even touch ( like hugging ) them other boys talk to them regularly and hug them and do some other physical things.
Then, I remember that it is I who always try to continue the conversation when I am having a conversation with a girl. They just answer my question and finish the thing, no comments, no questions...

So, how can I understand if I am pushy or not ?

[Kahn]

It seems to me you are a little pushy, like you're trying to get something from them.

Try to act more casual, and if they don't want to continue the conversation then just go with it. Trying to go on and on with it may make them feel pressured, etc. You just need to be calm, and try not to push a conversation.

[polkagurl]

Listen - immmma girl and girls like guys who talk and who express their emotions.
we dont like derps who dont give a shit and are not affectionative.
personally if a guy cares and asks how im doing everyday its GOOD :)
just dont push relationship on them - let that come naturally - they will start liking you if you really show them the real inner you :)

[ShatteredWings]

If she's acting like that she MIGHT not like the contact.

Just sayin'.

When people get cold/abrupt after being touched it's usually because they were uncomfortable with it and are not ok with the situation.