View Full Version : How to Talk to a Girl you Like
mzhockey1696
October 31st, 2010, 11:22 PM
Hi, I am 15. I am a little shy, and have trouble keeping a girl intrested in me when I am having a conversatation with her.
What kind of questions could I ask girls to keep them talking and not make it awkward.
jonjon77777
November 1st, 2010, 12:04 AM
well wat happened is my favorite line
michel513
November 1st, 2010, 12:15 AM
Crack a joke to break the ice, or ask her what she likes to do, or what she plans to do after high school or something.
Harley Quinn
November 1st, 2010, 02:15 AM
:arrow: relationships and dating
Sage
November 1st, 2010, 04:01 AM
Talk to her like you'd talk to anybody else. Don't put the pussy on the pedestal.
Rex99
November 1st, 2010, 05:30 AM
Ask what subjects she likes...
then if you have any in common, discuss, analyse why you like it, ask why she likes it etc...
even better, if you just had a test for said subject, ask how did she go, was it easy hard etc. b4 discussing why u like said subject and so on...
when you ask what subjects she likes, you're almost definately guarnteed a good conversation because it will be tailored specifically to her, and she will be interested.
don't ask yes or no questions, ask 'extended response' questions, while seeking a positive response, for example...so what do you find interesting about biology? as opposed to 'do you find biology boring?'
or go with the flow whatever floats your boat.
Fact
November 1st, 2010, 02:38 PM
People love to talk about themselves, so like Rex said, ask her all about herself.
Also, try to keep the humour up, but without ridiculing her or anything like that.
It's not as hard as it sounds but sometimes it is easier said than done, if you're shy.
Just go with the flow, as long as you don't end up offending her, it can't go very wrong.
Hope this helped ^^ and good luck!
Clawhammer
November 1st, 2010, 02:43 PM
Do more listening. And don't do continual strings of humor, one jest every once in a while is much better. Otherwise it could get awkward.
ShatteredWings
November 1st, 2010, 03:24 PM
Talk to her like you'd talk to anybody else. Don't put the pussy on the pedestal.
Do more listening. And don't do continual strings of humor, one jest every once in a while is much better. Otherwise it could get awkward.
Both of these.
Girls are people, as amazing as this seems, and IME i've yet to meet someone who really wants to be with someone who's just 'funny allllllll the time'
Kitty Purry
November 1st, 2010, 10:42 PM
Start off with small talk, then from there you can get into deeper conversations. It'd be kind of creepy if you just started talking to her all of the sudden.
Sage
November 1st, 2010, 11:20 PM
It'd be kind of creepy if you just started talking to her all of the sudden.
Depends. It can also be spontaneous, and some chicks are into that. But if you're even asking how to talk to girls, don't try the spontaneous thin. You need some experience for that.
unlucky-star
November 2nd, 2010, 09:32 AM
Well im kinda shy myself so it's hard to talk to guys as well, if you know the girl it's always nice to ask how she is or what's up with her or what some of her interests are. It's a great way to clear the ice and get to know each other as well.
AutumnDae
November 2nd, 2010, 08:32 PM
Say "Hey" first off.
This is the best ice breaker in the entire world. "How much does a polar bear weigh?"
"Ummm, I don't know, a lot?"
"Enough to break the ice!"
Gosh, I crack myself up.
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