What's so wrong with me?

[DarkHorses]

I'm fifteen, and I've never been in a relationship. I used to think that was okay, didn't really care. But lately I just really wish I could be in one. I just wish I had that. But every time I actually like a guy my own age (which is a rare occurrence, believe me) they don't like me. No one has ever liked me before, that I know of. Now if I were my sister, I'd have a guy with no problem. But I'm a little overweight, not very pretty if you ask me, and no one has ever seemed to like me. What's so wrong with me? I might not be the most gorgeous person in the world, but I'm a good person and I have a great personality. Why don't guys like me? It's beyond frustrating. =/

[Daniel_]

Wow.. We have quite a lot in common. Both from the same place, same age, same predicament.

Well.. Almost. Trust me, your 15. You have plenty of time to find that special someone.
You might find him tomorrow. You might find him 10 years from now. It does not matter.

Theres someone out there for everyone, you just gotta find them. I believe that.

[DarkHorses]

Thanks, Daniel. :) I appreciate it.

I guess that half the problem is that when I think of a relationship, I see it as something a lot deeper than I think most people my age probably do. So even if I did have a relationship, I doubt it would live up to my expectations. It's just hard when all of my friends are dating and I never have before. But I guess the important thing is remaining confident in myself no matter who likes me or who doesn't.

[Daniel_]

I'm the only one out of my friends who has never been in a relationship. Does it bother me? Yeah.. It kinda does.

Now, I feel like I want a relationship more where I just have someone to hang out with, go places with, talk with, stuff like that.

If you want to mess around some, experiment. It never hurt anyone, just don't do anything you will regret.

[Azunite]

Welcome to the club mac,

Dont worry about it. Half of teenagers dont have a serious relationship until there are like 18. I've never had a relationship. I dont care about it.
Name yourself " Lone Wolf " and be cool :)

[CairAndros]

I have only had two brief relationships and im 17. Quite a few of my mates have had either multiple relationships or one or two long term ones. Don't feel bad about it. I also know where you are coming from with the 'they don't like me' concept; every girl bar 2 has been like that with me.

Give it time, someone will come along eventually. Also you are more than likely prettier than you give yourself credit for.

Finally, don't change yourself; staying true to yourself is a greater beauty than anything that is on the surface. Also outer beauty fades with time, inner beauty never withers.

[The Dark Lord]

I didn't get into a relationship before I was 16 and felt I had the same problems as you. TBH it was down to poor self confidence and paranoia- I was more concerned about what people would think if I was rejected, then what she actually thought of me. My girl that I'm with not is way out of my league, so I'm lucky. I'm a bit like you- not particurlarly attractive and slightly overweight, but I used my sense of humour to "win her round". If you concentrate more on your postitives, then your negatives then your self confidence will gradually build up and you'll find someone. Just be patient

[Fact]

I didn't get into a relationship before I was 16 and felt I had the same problems as you. TBH it was down to poor self confidence and paranoia- I was more concerned about what people would think if I was rejected, then what she actually thought of me. My girl that I'm with not is way out of my league, so I'm lucky. I'm a bit like you- not particurlarly attractive and slightly overweight, but I used my sense of humour to "win her round". If you concentrate more on your postitives, then your negatives then your self confidence will gradually build up and you'll find someone. Just be patient

↑ Pretty much what he said.

Don't worry about it ^^ like Daniel said, there's someone out there for everyone, you just have to be patient and eventually you'll find someone who truly appreciates you.

[Blank]

It's fine, you might not believe it, but there are many people out there who are like that. I'm 14 and I've never had a relationship.

The problem with teens these days is that they see relationships as a status or their partners as something that they display to show off to everyone, I'm not saying all teens are like that, but a large percentage of them are. Don't worry though, as people grow older, they mature and see relations differently. They will start seeing people for their character, not to get into their pants or for social status.