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Kuervo
October 29th, 2010, 11:04 PM
for the past few days iv been feeling very lonely. sometimes i wud start thinking how lonely i am here. i have really good friends but sometimes even with them i feel really lonely. i would like to know why this is

Fact
October 30th, 2010, 06:04 AM
for the past few days iv been feeling very lonely. sometimes i wud start thinking how lonely i am here. i have really good friends but sometimes even with them i feel really lonely. i would like to know why this is

I also get this sometimes, so I'll tell you why I think I get it.
I'm a deep thinker - too deep. Everything for me has to have a reason behind it/my emotions go out of control sometimes.
The more you start thinking about how lonely you are, the more lonely you'll get and you'll push people away (I used to do that a lot).

Like you said - you have really good friends. Embrace them. Some people don't have really good friends, never have, never will.
Try to think about the positive side of as many things as possible in your life. Not only that, try to discard the negative (unless ofcourse it's going to affect your life in a big way). The more positively you think, the more positively you feel.

However, don't confuse this with lying to yourself (hard to do, for me anyway) because if a situation IS a negative one and it IS hopeless, there's not a lot you can do except sort it out.

I've gone a bit off the beaten track here (deep thinking again).
My point being - don't worry about being lonely. It will only make you even more lonely. Think about what you've gained rather than what you've lost and try to stay positive in your life, it should get you further :D

Hope this helps!

Kuervo
October 30th, 2010, 11:31 AM
^^ thanks =) it made me feel alot better

aussiecasper
October 30th, 2010, 02:15 PM
I also get this sometimes, so I'll tell you why I think I get it.
I'm a deep thinker - too deep. Everything for me has to have a reason behind it/my emotions go out of control sometimes.
The more you start thinking about how lonely you are, the more lonely you'll get and you'll push people away (I used to do that a lot).

Like you said - you have really good friends. Embrace them. Some people don't have really good friends, never have, never will.
Try to think about the positive side of as many things as possible in your life. Not only that, try to discard the negative (unless ofcourse it's going to affect your life in a big way). The more positively you think, the more positively you feel.

However, don't confuse this with lying to yourself (hard to do, for me anyway) because if a situation IS a negative one and it IS hopeless, there's not a lot you can do except sort it out.

I've gone a bit off the beaten track here (deep thinking again).
My point being - don't worry about being lonely. It will only make you even more lonely. Think about what you've gained rather than what you've lost and try to stay positive in your life, it should get you further :D

Hope this helps!

see basical nailed it. i have the exact same problem. if im not with people or play video games or at school, ill just lay around thinking about my life and how lonley and sad i m even though im not.

Fact
October 30th, 2010, 05:19 PM
Glad I made you feel better Jose ^^
& thanks Gavin, I try my best (:

Kloppn
November 2nd, 2010, 12:54 AM
I dont think really honestly anyone can tell you why you feel this way. I often feel the same way i often think i lack something that i need. I think man i have really good friends that are there for me and i have a great family i dont understand why i feel this way? What i do is i talk to someone one of my friends or someone and talk though how im feeling and the usually can help me pinpoint what the problem is.