In the middle...

[mxrider155]

Ok, so girl a, who i have been going out with for 7 months now is great: funny, caring, and exciting. girl b, whom i met almost a year ago, is also great, she is funny, and caring, but we also seem to have a more "intimate" relationship. we have talked about things that girl a hasn't even mentioned yet (yes, i am talking about sex). also, girl a seems too...immature i guess. she is great and all, but i just think we should be friends. meanwhile, girl b has told me that she loves me, and how lucky girl a is, and how we should be together

the problem is, i just don't know if i should or how to break up with girl a. i mean, she would be devastated, cause she is way too into me. i don't know, im just confused i guess. any advice?

[AutumnDae]

Well, even if you don't plan on getting with the other girl, in my opinion, you shouldn't stay with your current girlfriend. You aren't talking about her like you care about her all that much. If she's too immature for you, then break up with her. Have some compassion for her feelings, but if you're staying with her because you feel like you have to, that's a completely wrong reason.

What you do after you break up with her if completely up to you.

[Art_dude]

I agree with Autumn.

Even if you're purely thinking with your penis (which you don't seem to be doing... yet.), I think you should still dump girl A on the maturity issue alone. In strict pro-con terms, girl b is clearly the better option - she has all of the qualities you appreciate in girl A, with the added bonus of being more mature, and more intimate. I think what you need to do is pretty clear. Break up with girl A. Again, as Autumn said, if you're staying with her because you fell some obligation too, than that's completely the wrong reason to be with someone and is unfair to her.