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blackout123123
October 29th, 2010, 09:04 PM
I have give deep thought to this for a long time. I have known I am bi for quite some time, and have a bunch of thoughts and feelings bubbling up inside me. I want to speak to someone about it, and come out. But I know my parents will not approve of it. I have thought of telling some of my close friends, but at the same time, I am one of those people who for some reason are scared of what people will think. I need to talk to someone and get this off of me. Who could I go to? Or should I come out to my friends? :confused:

Your commentary will be greatly appreciated.

NitoJuanito
October 30th, 2010, 01:15 AM
I hade came out to my closest friends (who are all girls and 1 dude) but ask them first if they are against or for or dont care about bis, lesbians, or gays. if they say for or dont care id tell them. Im not going to tell my family until i get out of high school and move out

Fact
October 30th, 2010, 07:03 AM
I have give deep thought to this for a long time. I have known I am bi for quite some time, and have a bunch of thoughts and feelings bubbling up inside me. I want to speak to someone about it, and come out. But I know my parents will not approve of it. I have thought of telling some of my close friends, but at the same time, I am one of those people who for some reason are scared of what people will think. I need to talk to someone and get this off of me. Who could I go to? Or should I come out to my friends? :confused:

Your commentary will be greatly appreciated.

Just like the user before me said, ask your friends their opinion on lesbian/gay/bisexual people and if they sound indifferent/support it, come out to them.
There will always be someone who will accept you and want to listen ^^

I hope everything goes well for you.
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