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JPDC
October 29th, 2010, 07:56 PM
Ok I am 14 and there is dis girl in my class in skool. We've known eachother for 2 years and a bit and we ar rele good friends but I rele lik her and she said she rele likes me so 3 weeks ago I asked her did she want to go out wit me (boyfriend-girlfriend u kno wot I mean) and she said yes so we've been gettin on great since, we text eachother lik all da time and I think about her all da time. But it doesn't feel an awful lot different to when we were just rele good friends and we've only hugged eachother twice in da past three weeks and haven't even kissed yet! So what i'm wonderin is should I ask her out on a date (to the movies or somethin) or should we get more physically close (like kiss and stuff) first?? Pls help thanks!
Mr. Awesome
October 29th, 2010, 08:04 PM
Do what feels right, id say go out somwhere first, physical stuff will happen naturally, you will know when its right. As for not feeling different from when you were just friends, thats what a relationship is, good friends just spending more time with eachother
Nice to see some more Irish here :)
Clawhammer
October 29th, 2010, 08:11 PM
Just go easy and see where it takes you.
aussiecasper
October 29th, 2010, 08:38 PM
keep a realationship over just text is hard so hang out with her out of school. it dosent have to be just you two going out either. take a group of friends and go to the movoes or something simple.
Fact
October 30th, 2010, 05:40 AM
Like these guys have said ↑
Just keep it simple, physical stuff will happen naturally - when you're both comfortable and want to. Neither of you want to feel like you're being forced into doing things just because you're 'in a relationship.
Movies sounds like a good idea, or go somewhere that you can talk and bond more - that way you'll build your relationship more.
Be sweet and funny - most girls like that.
Good luck to you two :D
Hope this helped.
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