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XSceneQueenBabeX
October 27th, 2010, 11:19 AM
:confused:I dont know really what to do, it seems like all of my friends are turning on me, and i have no idea why. It makes no since. They are just randomly ignoring me and saying shit behind my back. And i feel alone as i walk the halls at school. I dont know what to do. I hate feeling alone....
Fact
October 27th, 2010, 11:23 AM
This happened to me recently. It sucks.
My best advice, even though I don't know if it works yet because I'm still not finished dealing with this shit...
1) Don't put up with being alone if you're unhappy with it, make new friends (I have, they're awesome).
2) Try to find out why they're ignoring you and being bitchy. If there's no just cause, then fuck them. If there is a reason and you still want your friends back, try to resolve the situation.
3) If neither of these things work initially, just keep trying. Eventually, one of the two things will happen - so you'll come out of it better off in the end ^^
Hope this helps ♥
Fiction
October 27th, 2010, 03:36 PM
Sometimes friendships just come to a natural end. I know it's not nice but there isn't really anything you can do. It might just be a little petty fall out type thing but if it's not, then you can always find new friends :)
LoveMe_HateMe
October 28th, 2010, 12:32 PM
I think the best thing to do would be to talk to them. Just ask them why they're being like that and to be honest if they're treating you like then they're obvioulsy not your best friends, sorry, but you should ditch them if they don't have a good enough reason. Cause if they do it once. They'll do it again. I think the best thing to do would be to find new friends.
Good luck and hope everything sorts out for you, you can PM/ me anytime :)
Kitty Purry
October 28th, 2010, 11:10 PM
This is when you know when someone isnt your true friend -_- this has happen to me recently as well, but I recovered preety fast haha. I'd suggest that you try to make some new friends, ones that are true friends. And you should try and see why they starting ignoring, and talking behind your back. It might've been something youve done, but if theres no reason then forget them, your much better without them.
insanity
November 3rd, 2010, 02:45 AM
eek, I had the same problem so I decided to ask my friends about it, then they told me they thought I was angry and ignoring them! so they were just giving me space... I still think they have a problem with me but if they wont admit it and act as nothing is happening then I will have to live with that. Idk if its the same with your friends or not but maybe you could try and look at it from a different angle because maybe they dont have a problem with you...? and as for the talking behind your back you should just tell them to stop bitching about you, and if they have a problem could they have the guts to tell you face to face. I hope things get better soon.
ShatteredWings
November 3rd, 2010, 02:59 PM
Time for some new friends, and maybe a little self-evaluation.
-- Did you just grow apart, or was there some sort of misunderstanding/slight that went on causing it.
Theatheist of doom
November 7th, 2010, 07:56 PM
Make new friends, chances are your old ones weren't really friends if they're turning on you so rapidly. Also don't be upset cause' they weren't worth your time anyway.
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