.....I feel lame

[aussiecasper]

Im a sophmore in high school and honestley i have never had a girlfriend....or a boyfriend or an anyfriend. and it makes me feel lame. is it werid that i havent been able to get a girlfreind yet?

And a side note, when did you get into your first serious relationship?

[LoveMe_HateMe]

I wouldn't worry about it too much hun, I thought exactly the same when I was 16 I got my first real boyfriend, and I'm still with him year later. You'll just have to wait and see what happens :) good luck and hope this helps :)

[laurita_21]

You shouldn't feel lame cause you haven't had a girlfriend yet, I know people older than you who haven't had a girlfriend, plus when the time comes you'll meet someone you really like, don't rush into relationships!
First serious relationship for me? err im 15 I don't think I know what that is :P Relationships for me are just for fun xD

[Timma]

Im a freshmen and i havent had one either mainly because when i was little my mom was overprotective so i always thought that if i had one my mom would think im 2 young and kill me
But dont be one of those guys that goes out with people with low self esteem that hes not even attracted to just to brag about it

[aussiecasper]

ya im like that too. and ya i hate those people. and no im not really into people like that and i def dont want to be that guy.

[Hank Hill]

Hey, I'm 15 and my first "serious" relationship started 2 weeks ago XD, you have nothing to worry about, (plus, being single gives you a lot more opportunities) XD

[Harley Quinn]

Im a sophmore in high school and honestley i have never had a girlfriend....or a boyfriend or an anyfriend. and it makes me feel lame. is it werid that i havent been able to get a girlfreind yet?

And a side note, when did you get into your first serious relationship?

there's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend or a girlfriend, when your time comes, you will have one. It's nothing to stress, or worry about, just go with the flow and see where that takes you, you may be surprised in all honesty. My first serious relationship was 14 - well, still going so you get my drift :P just relax and focus on school life, then think about the whole dating scene. It's not lame, remember that.

[IMonfire]

Hey mate,

You're not alone. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I courted a girl when I was 16 but she moved out. Don't rush things and don't feel lame my friend. Time will come that you will meet the right guy/girl for you. Being in a relationship is a very serious thing so just relax and wait for the right time. :)

[ShatteredWings]

i was a freshman, but it wasn't exactly expected or the normal way.

If you haven't had a gf yet, it's still fine.
Spend the time with your friends. it's just not a big deal.

[AutumnDae]

I don't really know how to answer the age at my first 'serious' relationship. I could say a variety of answers, depending on what serious means.

I'll just consider my most recent one the first serious, because it basically was.

I'm 16, and it was after my sophomore year in high school.

[Kuervo]

nobody is lame just because they didnt have any bf or gf, and its not really weird that u havent gotten ur first one

see, i didnt get my first real gf until like april of this year and im 16, so it doesnt make u lame at all, dont think that

i bet ur a cool person

[Azunite]

Hey why the hell people haven't told my name here :P

I never had a girlfriend, although I am sometimes sad for it, it feels fine.
I dont have a gf, and I am NOT weird :D

[Sith Lord 13]

Just relax. I was in my sophomore year of college before I had my first relationship. It'll happen when it happens.

[Daniel_]

Ohhh who gives two shits.

I'm a Junior in High School* and haven't even kissed a girl yet, but whatever. If it bothers you that much, then just ask someone out, but you have PLENTY of time to find a girlfriend, so don't stress out about it, just go with the flow. You'll find someone.

[Azunite]

Ohhh who gives two shits.

I'm a Junior in college and haven't even kissed a girl yet, but whatever. If it bothers you that much, then just ask someone out, but you have PLENTY of time to find a girlfriend, so don't stress out about it, just go with the flow. You'll find someone.

If you mention about not kissing someone, then you must have hugged a girl before, you lucky b*stard :D

[Daniel_]

If you mention about not kissing someone, then you must have hugged a girl before, you lucky b*stard :D

I meant high school, my bad. I currently have two browsers open and I'm browsing college programs while posting on the forums... lmao..

[aussiecasper]

Thanks you guys for the replys and the prespective it really helped. :)

[Rex99]

I didn't get my first gf until 16 don't worry, I used to stress over it heaps, but then she came into my life all of a sudden. I too thought i was lame, and thought no girl would ever like me, but it all changed in a split second, literally.

[Jenna.]

Nope, it's not weird at all. Everyone starts dating at different ages. If anything, not dating at your age makes you more admirable because it shows that you don't go out and find a random girl just for the hell of it.
I had my first serious relationship when I was 15, but I'm still with the guy, two years later. (: