Question for straight guys and gay guys

[RJLOVER]

Orientation?

okay so for the past 4 months i dated a guy. HE wanted the relationship. he is also tho one who go us to give each other head. we made out allllllll the time, and gave each other hjs frequently. pretty much whenever we were alone one of us would cum. but now he broke up with me because he says hes straight.

do you guys think its possible that after he wanted to sleep naked together, suck each other, jerk off, and everything that hes straight?

[DeCoolestDudeEver]

honestly, i think h just playing with you. thats his reason apparently. hes hiding something.

[Fact]

Sorry that I'm not male, hope you don't mind me posting.
If he hasn't given you a specific reason other than that he thinks he's straight now, then the guy above me was probably right.

[LoginLeo]

Hi. Im 16 yo.
That sounds like a lie to me, but it also can be true.
Cuz - i thought i was gay, had all that stuff with a guy, and my first sexual experience was with a guy.
Then he broke up with me.
2 months after that i was sure 100% that im straight. Watched straight porn and so.
Then i had something like a start of a relationship with a girl. It came out that she was such a whore lol.
Now i dont know what i am.

Just saying, ppl change all the time.
So.. It may be the truth. I really dunno dude.
Hope i helped!
If u need any help/advice/something else, just pm me :)

[Beats]

Like they said, I am pretty sure that he was playing you. I may be wrong, But you could always find out his "past".

[douglous]

It's a tricky one.

Emotions are running high as puberty kicks in and we all grow up.

[ivanori]

He probably played you.. or doesn't want to accept his sexuality.

[imma]

he could just have been curious.

[mranderson]

i think either he doesnt want anyone knowing hes gay, or he thought he was but rly isnt

[aussiecasper]

well mabey he just wanted an out to break up with you. sounds logical. or mabey he was just experementing and he finnaly got tired of it, or mabey he was getting picked on because someone found out he was gay.....idk not my situation, you have to talk to him honestley or find the most logical conclusion on your own

[penutpanther81]

he could of been desperate or like aussiecapser said he could of been geting picked on
idk
im bi by the way

[Footballkid27]

he might or might not be straight. Maybe he thinks its getting too weird for him and would rather be with a girl.

[izik]

im guessing he was like most teen boys and was curious about his sexuality. i know that at one point i thought for sure i was gay and wanted to bang every guy in site, but now i am more than 100% sure i am straight.
being a teen is defiantly not am easy period in life.

[boosterboy]

people can change

[anime247]

maybe he's bi but won't admit it.

[Alex_.-]

he's not straight, i don't see how u can have oral sex and make out for 4 months and him all of a sudden be straight...

he may not be interested in *you* anymore, but he is *definitely* interested in guys....

[michel513]

hmm maybe or maybe his just confused or his Bi or he doesn't want to be with you, sorry.

[Cudder]

He was just curious about you and your penis. What is your penis size? Is it bigger or smaller than his?

[RJLOVER]

heres some new info that might help...so i saw him this weekend because i wanted to talk about it and everything. so hes "straight" now WITH a gf and so when we talked he continued to hook up with me AND we gave each other head...now the reason i care so much is because he still is my absolute best friend and we talk 24/7 but he honestly acts like were dating more then him and his gf...

[ACQD139F83J]

that's just fucking confusing

[nick234]

he probably just wanted to experiment

[The Red Devil]

Well theres a chance when he thought he was gay he was in the earlier stages of puberty, therefore possibly he woulnt have the same hormones that attracts males to females? Just a guess okay?

Ofcourse, theres also the possibility he wants to break up with you, but after doing all of that with you and sharing so many expieriences he felt guilty when it comes to breaking up used it simply as an excuse.

[Lights]

Wow that guy sounds like a complete douche.
People here say that they think he was playing you... but I don't think that's quite the case. If all the things you described happened (like the constant making out and what-have-you) then this guy does not sound straight at all. A straight guy would not be so interested in interacting with another guy so much.
Sounds like he just doesn't want to accept his sexuality. I would be so hurt if someone was toying with me like that by then going and getting a girlfriend. You're better than him and he doesn't deserve you.

[CaliLax]

It's a tricky one.

Emotions are running high as puberty kicks in and we all grow up.

I guess what he said.... he could have realized maybe being gay or bi wasnt for him, or he could be playing hard to get. i do that with girls, and it makes them go CRAZY for me :D


good luck, hope u get him back :wub:

[Nikko]

Maybe it was a nice way of saying "dude leave me alone!!" Just don't question him if he says he straight then thats apparently what he wants to be so just forget it

[Robbie]

yeah thats all really complicated and it looks like your the only one getting hurt in this whole mess? :S

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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