Am I In To Deep?

[aussiecasper]

No sexual pun intended, but there is this girl that i have known for ever since kindergarden and i have always liked her, and bing bang boom im a sophmore in HS now. but just a couple of years ago i realized that you know holy crap this girl ia amzing and i want to be more than friends. but i fear that im just to far into our friendship and it would just be akward for her, for us if i put her in that position of asking her out? and i dont want to jepradize everthing, because being friends and never having that realationship is better than being akwards and never talking again. she is one of my few best freiends and i have no clue. awsome right!?!?!:D

[MhWrestler152]

I have a friend that is a girl that I really want to go further with. But she has a boyfriend so I guess that is more awesome... Anyway, don't freak her out by saying "Let's go out." Try flirting a little bit and hopefully she might flirt back. And sooner or later you will decide whether she is interested you or not. Or you can try giving her the smallest hints for a couple of weeks and eventually she will catch on and then you can finally ask her. And if she really is your friend it probably wont ruin your friendship. I wish you luck mate.

[nick]

Sometimes you reach a point where you have to take a risk to have any hope of progress. If you say something in the right way, maybe say something like "Look if I'm making a fool of myself just tell me", idk, you have to find your own words, but I think there is a way to ask without it spoiling everything if the answer is no.

[Art_dude]

I agree with Nick, there is always a way to ask without it spoiling the friendship if the answer is no.

Us guys get this ridiculous fear of being rejected especially by female friends because we fear the friendship will be spoiled or somehow self destruct. Most girls, especially ones you have strong friendships with, will not abandon you or think differently of you just because it entered your consciousness that dating may be good for you. Trust me, if she has a single human impulse in her body, she's thought about dating you. Whether or not she wants to or not is a different story. If she doesn't feel the same way and if she's really your friend, she will let you down easy, and value the friendship you still have.

[Timma]

Id say wait a while to make sure your not going throught a phase i used to like this girl but then i quickly got over it plus she was a total slut

[NextToNormal]

honestly, i dont think you are in too deep. some of the best relationships come from you being great friends with the person before hand. it eliminates all of the awkwardness of things because you guys are already so close. ive been in some relationships where the person and i were the best of friends and things were great with us dating. if you want to ask her out, go for it! the worst she can say is no and that she only sees you as a friend. it wont end your friendship with her if you admit to her your feelings.

[aussiecasper]

Thanks guys. ya im going to try. and its not just a phase that im likeing her, it gose in phases of me likeing her, ussually really confident nd then i get depressed because im too scared or i talk myself down haha ya im pathetic but ya thanks again :)

[NextToNormal]

youre not pathetic by any stretch of the imagination. you are human. you have nerves. you have flaws. you have peaks of confidence and times when you would rather hide and not be seen. we all go through it.

[Azunite]

If she really cares about you as a friend, even if you ask her and she rejects, you two would be friends.
Thats the exact same thing happened to me