should I tell my Mum

[green]

so I looked at my sisters facebook messages and she has tonnes about her fucking guys and giving them blowjobs and drinking alchohol and shit like that. shes 15!!! im not wanting to tell cause shell get in trouble but i am actually worried. and I know its not fake because she has a message from my cousin about her drinking and being at a party and fucking some guy who is like 17 18 years old. she says she did use protection but im worried. Should I tell my mum?

[laurita_21]

I wouldn't tell, talk to her about it first and then figure something out.

[Fact]

↑ what Laura said.
It's not a good idea to go straight to your mother, because then your sister will probably get upset/angry about it.
Try talking to her first, without accusing her (as hard as that may be) then tell her your concerns about her behaviour.
If she's still upset/angry about it and continues AND you think she's damaging her health/well being, THEN feel free to tell your mother.
That's what I would do anyway.

Hope this helps! Good luck if you decide to talk to her about it.

[Sith Lord 13]

Honestly, if she's being safe, I'd just stay out. It's her life, and all confronting her about it is gonna do is cause trouble.

[nick]

Would you want her to tell you mum if she discovered you were sexually active? I guess not. All you can do is encourage her to be safe and maybe suggest having messages all over facebook wont be doing a lot for her reputation.

[Azunite]

Don't...
She will found out you told her.
She wont talk to you anymore.
Your siste will be punished for at least 3 months or so, excluding permament punishments.

If you don't see messsages like " I don't know Ashley, I mean, Mike was cool and fun but he wants to go further and sometimes hurts me, I am afraid something will happen ! " this, you shouldn't worry.

Though about alcohol, you can ask her like " Do you drink alcohol sister, just asking :) " and she says "Yes" you can try to convince her not to drink

[Fiction]

Drinking alcohol and having sex is something everyone is gonna try at some point and doing that at 15 is just being a typical teenager. I've had sex and i've been drunk but i've been safe about it so she is probably doing the same. It's her life and if i where you i'd stay out of it and not tell your mum.

[Kahn]

It's something everyone tries.

The question is, why did you look at her Facebook messages in the first place? Curiosity killed the cat. People have passwords for reasons, and they surely don't want you looking at their messages. In my opinion, that was wrong of you.

Another thing about telling on her. Don't. In the end, it can make a lot of hell reign down on you and your sister. You may have some privileges taken away because of it, and she would surely be upset. You, in fact, would be in the center of it all because you are the one that provided the evidence for it. It'll do no good since ever teenager does it. She's using protection which is a plus.

I am not promoting this activity, however. It's reckless and a lot of hell can come from this behavior. Sure, you may get a night of pleasure, but in the end the consequences outweigh the pleasure.

[Theatheist of doom]

Don't tell your mom, talk to your sister. My parents cyberstalk me sometimes and it makes me want to scream so you don't want to bring that on your sister

[disassociation2016]

I recommended you telling your mother about the alcohol, but that's all.
It is illegal for her to drink, what she does sexually isn't illegal.
On top of that alcohol is a gateway drug.

[UnknownError]

Don't tell your mom, talk to your sister. My parents cyberstalk me sometimes and it makes me want to scream so you don't want to bring that on your sister

Uggh same. They are always all over my youtube, checking my facebook picture is "suitable" (I posted a picture of me and a friend pretending to be drinking once, the bottle lid was on. >.> ) and checking my twitter (Since made private).

[whereismymind]

I'm sure she's just experimenting with things if she's using protection she should be fine but its only natural to worry.

[Love.Hate]

I wouldnt tell your mom.
After all she is 15 and we have all got to try it at some point.
Maybe you could talk to her and tell her that you think she should delete
the facebook messages because there inapropriate.
As long as she is safe then really there is no major problem. :)

[Cloud]

I recommended you telling your mother about the alcohol, but that's all.
It is illegal for her to drink, what she does sexually isn't illegal.
On top of that alcohol is a gateway drug.

Its illegal for her to have under age sex tooo
soooo yeaaaaaaaaaah....
Id say talk to your sister
telling your mum would only cause unecessary problems for your sister that would get back to you since shed know you told her

[Fiction]

As people have said i think you really shouldn't have looked at her messages. They are her business. It's her life. Pretend you never saw the messages and leave her too it.