View Full Version : Racist natural attraction ?
jack316
October 25th, 2010, 11:33 AM
I'm just wondering what race you guys are and what races you are attracted to ?
Because I'm gay and 1/4 black (I have light brown skin) and I'm not attracted to black guys at all, and I can't help it. I'm attracted to asain, white (European) and Latino guys and Its kinda racist but I can't help it !
Anybody else the same ?
Fact
October 25th, 2010, 11:44 AM
I'm a half black, straight female.
I haven't really thought about it much, but I rarely ever look at black guys and think they're hot.
I don't know if that's got anything to do with racism though... I guess because there are less black people in UK compared to a lot of places, and then less again in my town, there are going to be even less attractive black people, let alone attractive black people around when you are!
So, maybe you just haven't found a sufficiently attractive black guy?
Harley Quinn
October 25th, 2010, 11:45 AM
:arrow: relationships and dating
i don't care what race the person is that i would be attacted to, i'm white :P
jack316
October 25th, 2010, 11:48 AM
Like sometimes my friends are like oh usher or some black celebrity is so hot and I just think they're ugly. It's so weird :) hahaha
laurita_21
October 25th, 2010, 11:57 AM
Im white, really pale.I like pale or tanned skin, I don't think it's racist at all it's just what you like because I have never been attrackted to anyone with slightly darker skin but half of my friends are black.
Peace God
October 25th, 2010, 12:23 PM
Ive noticed that gay people tend to feel that way a lot more that straight people. Especially gays that are attracted to the more feminine type of guy.
and no its not racist...that like saying homosexual people are sexist
Personally, i dont care. I'm attracted to people of all races...and genders.
Black & Hispanic/Bi/Male
Jenna.
October 25th, 2010, 12:34 PM
I'm only attracted to white or sometimes Native American looking guys, it's weird but it's how I am. I don't think it's racist though...you're not doing it to be rude, it's just your preference.
karl
October 25th, 2010, 01:08 PM
Like I've already said on a similar thread, I'm attracted to the person, not the colour of his/her skin
nick
October 25th, 2010, 01:51 PM
In terms of superficial attraction there are certain looks that I prefer, but when it comes to love its about personality and chemistry. I could love anyone irrespective of their race.
The Resurrected One
October 25th, 2010, 02:23 PM
Race doesn't matter to me. If the person is beautiful, then they're beautiful, regardless of race.
Perseus
October 25th, 2010, 03:20 PM
I'm more attracted to white girls. It's not racist because I'm not acting like white people are superior.
For me, it goes -
White
Asian
Native American
Black
Hispanic
Andrew0017
October 25th, 2010, 04:51 PM
I'm only attracted to a white girl, I'm not trying to come off as rude, but the rest just aren't remotely attractive to me. I have nothing against other races, but I can't exactly change what I like. :whoops:
Painted_Indian_Horse
October 25th, 2010, 07:27 PM
i mostly like really tan or spanish-looking guys. i have dated a black guy, and he is one of the nicest, most amazing guys i know. but it also depends on a lot of personality for me. if i find a totally dreamy guy that's interested, and i find out he's a dick, it doesn't matter what he looks like--i don't want to have anything to do with him. :P
you're not being racist at all, it's just your preference, like everyone else said.
Vonn
October 25th, 2010, 07:45 PM
I'm attracted to lighter skin colors of any race, pretty much. But I do like caucasian guys more.
It's not like it really matters, though. Just something I find more attractive.
gbboone
October 25th, 2010, 08:03 PM
I'm not attracted to most African Americans. I don't know why. I'm just not. I have always pictured myself with a Caucasian, but that's because the area I live in is predominantly white. It's really more about the personality for me.
jack316
October 26th, 2010, 10:36 AM
Thanks for the feedback guys :) it really helped me
electricfeel
October 26th, 2010, 11:01 AM
Well I mainly like white, and mexican guys. But if they were an amazing person, then i'd be able to look past the color of their skin. :D I wouldnt consider it being racist though :P.
Daniel_
October 26th, 2010, 07:49 PM
I don't think it's racist at all, a lot of my best friends are black, mexican, whatever, however when it comes to a sexual attraction, I can only see myself with another white girl.
I'm white and straight btw.
aussiecasper
October 27th, 2010, 12:00 AM
im not very racist, but the only thing i am not attracked to is brown haired blue eyed white girls, its creepy because most of them just look like they could be related to me but other than that its not about the looks of any race its all about charecter and learning to love a person
EminemvsRach
October 27th, 2010, 12:06 AM
I'm Asian and I'm attracted to Asian and White girls
Strength
October 30th, 2010, 06:15 AM
im only attracted to whites (european) some asians are ok but not many.
ShatteredWings
October 30th, 2010, 07:33 AM
It's not really rasist to not be attracted to certain people. It's raceist to directly discriminate AGAINST certain people.
AutumnDae
October 30th, 2010, 08:14 AM
If I'm looking through a magazine, I rarely say anything other than white guys are good looking. I just don't find them super hot.
I'm really only attracted to white guys. But that isn't to say that's only what I will ever find attractive. I have found other races attractive, just not as often.
Sith Lord 13
October 30th, 2010, 01:59 PM
I'm a white pan male, and I find myself generally attracted to caucasians. I also find redheads more attractive generally. Does that mean I discriminate based on hair color? No. Attraction =/= racism. Also, I'm not saying I wouldn't date someone of another skin color, I just don't generally find them attractive and don't generally dote people I'm not attracted to.
foot soldier
October 30th, 2010, 02:56 PM
Well, I'm a 16 year old white heterosexual female and I'm only physically attracted to white guys.
Is it also important to note I'm from Alabama? :D But, that's really not the point. I just don't find people of other races to be sexually attractive. I note nice features on everyone and dole out compliments with equal opportunity to everyone I meet. You have a great smile? I'll tell you that you have a great smile, but I'm not attracted to you. I don't think it's wrong at all to only or mostly find your own race attractive since it is possible to find members of all races who feel the same way. Therefore 'racist natural attraction' = not actually racist, in my own opinion ;)
Rashard
November 2nd, 2010, 09:22 PM
Naww its not racist or anythin bra
Church
November 2nd, 2010, 09:45 PM
I'm white and I will only date other white people or Asians if there not completely Asian, like I dated a girl who was 20% Asian before. Just my personal preferences.
Syvelocin
November 2nd, 2010, 09:52 PM
I'm not racist at all, but race is sort of like just another appearance thing. Race isn't something that will affect my emotional attraction, but as far as pure physicality, I've only ever been really attracted to caucasian guys and girls, and I'm caucasian myself. It's just like preferring a hair colour.
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