kerpalkerpal
October 25th, 2010, 12:26 AM
Aryte so, me and Jeremy seem to disagree about the severity of some of the things he has done to me, a friend who he once considered as one of his best friends until recently. Jeremy seems to think that these things are no big deal at all in terms of a friendship, he basically sees them as nothing, whereas I see them as big deals considering I didn’t do anything to provoke them. We decided to post what has happened on the net and get peoples honest opinions of whether or not they believe the stuff Jeremy did is pretty bad in a friendship or not.
So here are the things that have come up.
First off let me tell you something about Jeremy. A little over 2 yrs ago which is about the time I met him, he got into modding and repairing 360s and other various electronics and began a home business for the stuff. Ever since then he’s been making a crap load of money for someone his age (hes currently 18). He would make a couple hundred dollars cnd. a day of straight cash almost everyday until recently. It has slowed down a little now but he’s still making good money. Over the period of about 1 year and a bit, he said he made about $100,000. Needless to say, he’s been making mad money and still is. So when one of his best friends borrows $200 from him for 2 weeks for something very important and the $200 Jeremy even said is nothing to him he said he “could wipe his butt with that money”, and then his friend calls him around the time it is to pay him back and says yo I cant pay u, my mom needs the money to pay for the house, I can pay u back in 2 more weeks, and then instead of being understanding Jeremy does the exact opposite and says stuff like “I don’t give a **bleep**, **bleep** u, I want the **bleepin** money, I don’t care about ur problems, that’s ur issue, right now, u owe me money and I expect to have it” and for about 40 mins it just when back and forth between me and him with me saying that hes **bleeped** up for not understanding and him saying all that crap similar to what I quoted.
Now, secondly, which just recently happened, me and Jeremy were in a conversation about me trying to help him out by telling him that he is too confident is his financial future, that hes takin a big risk by not going to college because he makes most of his money off of console repairs because who knows how the console repair market will be in the future and what-not, I was just looking out for him so that he doesn’t become broke and miserable in the future, even though he might still be ballin if he doesn’t go to college I didn’t want him to take that risk.
I then said not everyone cares about how much $ a person makes. For some reason he then went onto trying to make me feel like crap and says “look, that’s why I get all these chicks to suck my balls, even if I was gay I’d be cooler than u, even if I was something something (cant exactly remember but it was worse than being gay) he said id still be cooler than u”
And it wasn’t meant as a joke. I even got him to admit it, “he said yea, it was meant to put u down, if u push me il push u back.”
I didn’t even push him so I don’t know where that came from. I was just tryin to help him out and I have been saying the same thing for a while now and he knew that.
The last thing isn’t that big a deal but I say Jeremy crossed the line and he thinks he didn’t So me and Jeremy are at pizza hut, I don’t know who started it but sum1 threw a paper at the other person. Yea ok w/e its all fun and games, and we were throwing paper at each other for like 30 secs. Then Jeremy picks up the dipping sauce and throws that crap at my face. If I didn’t block it, it wud have went all over my face but luckily only a little bit went on my face and most of went on my shirt and neck. The sauce was almost full, and his intention was to throw it at my face?? I mean im all for doin stuff like throwin stuff at each other but I say that’s just crossing the line whereas he thinks it not at all.
I know this is pretty random but can you guys please provide your HONEST opinions of if whether or not the first two things Jeremy has done is pretty bad for a friendship or not and if the dipping sauce incident was crossing the line or not. Me and him really gotta settle this.
thanks
So here are the things that have come up.
First off let me tell you something about Jeremy. A little over 2 yrs ago which is about the time I met him, he got into modding and repairing 360s and other various electronics and began a home business for the stuff. Ever since then he’s been making a crap load of money for someone his age (hes currently 18). He would make a couple hundred dollars cnd. a day of straight cash almost everyday until recently. It has slowed down a little now but he’s still making good money. Over the period of about 1 year and a bit, he said he made about $100,000. Needless to say, he’s been making mad money and still is. So when one of his best friends borrows $200 from him for 2 weeks for something very important and the $200 Jeremy even said is nothing to him he said he “could wipe his butt with that money”, and then his friend calls him around the time it is to pay him back and says yo I cant pay u, my mom needs the money to pay for the house, I can pay u back in 2 more weeks, and then instead of being understanding Jeremy does the exact opposite and says stuff like “I don’t give a **bleep**, **bleep** u, I want the **bleepin** money, I don’t care about ur problems, that’s ur issue, right now, u owe me money and I expect to have it” and for about 40 mins it just when back and forth between me and him with me saying that hes **bleeped** up for not understanding and him saying all that crap similar to what I quoted.
Now, secondly, which just recently happened, me and Jeremy were in a conversation about me trying to help him out by telling him that he is too confident is his financial future, that hes takin a big risk by not going to college because he makes most of his money off of console repairs because who knows how the console repair market will be in the future and what-not, I was just looking out for him so that he doesn’t become broke and miserable in the future, even though he might still be ballin if he doesn’t go to college I didn’t want him to take that risk.
I then said not everyone cares about how much $ a person makes. For some reason he then went onto trying to make me feel like crap and says “look, that’s why I get all these chicks to suck my balls, even if I was gay I’d be cooler than u, even if I was something something (cant exactly remember but it was worse than being gay) he said id still be cooler than u”
And it wasn’t meant as a joke. I even got him to admit it, “he said yea, it was meant to put u down, if u push me il push u back.”
I didn’t even push him so I don’t know where that came from. I was just tryin to help him out and I have been saying the same thing for a while now and he knew that.
The last thing isn’t that big a deal but I say Jeremy crossed the line and he thinks he didn’t So me and Jeremy are at pizza hut, I don’t know who started it but sum1 threw a paper at the other person. Yea ok w/e its all fun and games, and we were throwing paper at each other for like 30 secs. Then Jeremy picks up the dipping sauce and throws that crap at my face. If I didn’t block it, it wud have went all over my face but luckily only a little bit went on my face and most of went on my shirt and neck. The sauce was almost full, and his intention was to throw it at my face?? I mean im all for doin stuff like throwin stuff at each other but I say that’s just crossing the line whereas he thinks it not at all.
I know this is pretty random but can you guys please provide your HONEST opinions of if whether or not the first two things Jeremy has done is pretty bad for a friendship or not and if the dipping sauce incident was crossing the line or not. Me and him really gotta settle this.
thanks