Staying back a year in highschool

[Timma]

Is it possible to stay back a year i hate all the people i go to school with,
i have no friends,people say i have no life,no freinds,
and im fat (5'1 130lbs) yet that all ties together im fat because
i dont go outside and i dont go outside because i have no friends and because i have no friends i have no life yet when i ask to do something with someone they say no?
i just hate this i feel like ive missed out on so much with the people i go to school with every little thing is some big deal
I walk to fast? people screaming stop running
On phone in class? Whole class starts yellin at me to get off my phone even if they are on theres.
People say i should be outgoing and join a club but if i do its just gunna be me and a bunch of people i dont know

[closed]

First of all you don't stay a year. It will be in your resume and you won't get to a good college. even thin people tend to have no friends. Obviously the people around you are mistaken, but you can't change them, so change your attitude. if you ever need someone to talk contact me :)

hope it helps :hug:

[Peace God]

Why does that make you want to stay in school longer?

[Azunite]

Lol dont do that.
In order to stay you have to fail. If you previous grades are good your parents will know you are up to something, and get super mad at you.
It would be extra expense for your parents.

[Timma]

my parents already know i wanted to do it last year but my math teacher decided to pass me off with a D- people said i should be outgoing and talk to people about doing stuff after school more but when i do people say no...

[laurita_21]

Don't drop out! Or maybe home schooling?
I think you should just ignore people that ignore you, it would be good if you kept trying. But I guess there are some good sides to it, you get to focus more on your work, you don't have to deal with so much drama or gossip or getting into trouble. Or just get some friends out of school.

[unlucky-star]

Please don't be held back because of ignorance. You won't be able to get held back a year anyways so why set yourself up for disappointment? To be honest I relate really well with what you're going through. I don't go outside unless I have to, I actually weigh more than you as well but it doesn't mean I let things like that slow me down. I deal with crap from people constantly and I deal with it by being true to myself. If you want friends sometimes you gotta make the effort first, I can be your friend if you'd like? By the way if someone doesn't like you it's because they see something in you they want.

[disassociation2016]

Please don't be held back because of ignorance. You won't be able to get held back a year anyways so why set yourself up for disappointment? To be honest I relate really well with what you're going through. I don't go outside unless I have to, I actually weigh more than you as well but it doesn't mean I let things like that slow me down. I deal with crap from people constantly and I deal with it by being true to myself. If you want friends sometimes you gotta make the effort first, I can be your friend if you'd like? By the way if someone doesn't like you it's because they see something in you they want.

That's awfully narcissistic, usually it's the opposite. They befriend you because they want you or something you have.

[Kloppn]

In life you will always have people or someone that is just there to make you life a living hell anyway they can and there is time where you will feel like there is no end to the tunnel of chaos. You cant live your life for someone else or what they think in the long run they will not even matter hell after you graduate you will probable never see most of them. For the mean while your in school and no matter what people say school is hell in many ways but we can all get though it. Raise you head up and say to yourself "I can do this" go into that school and dont care what people think. Dont act effected by what they do when they see the reaction that you give them when they do that shit it makes them want to continue dont even give the satisfaction. Dont put your life on hold for a year just because jerks out there. You dont have to be outgoing everyone has a different personality and not one of them is the "right" on it is okay to be different that what makes you special.
Hope this helps.
Hang in there

[Punk_Kid]

Try doing some clubs. Pick ones that you might enjoy. You said that you would be with a bunch of new people. If they're new to you then they might not now you which means you could get some good friends.