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TySpeedy
October 24th, 2010, 02:06 PM
Okay, this guy from my school who is also bi wants to give me a blowjob. And I said. Maybe, if I do it will probably be during the week cuz' we have no school. And I said he could maybe come over to play some Xbox and maybe go from there. But whenever I jack off and cum. It's like I have this guilty feeling and don't want him to come over. But then within another hour, I want him too. How do I get rid of that feeling?? :confused:

penutpanther81
October 24th, 2010, 02:13 PM
ive never had that feeling so i dont know
maby if try not to think about it much and just go with the flow idk
sorry

Joshuaharris
October 24th, 2010, 02:18 PM
i know what your talkinga bout. i get that after i jack off all the time. i think its cause youre probably afraid of others finding out or because you arent sure about it. just take some time and think of whether or not you really want it to happen and how it would change your friendship. and afterward if youstill want to do it then just do it and try not to focus on the guilty part.

nick
October 24th, 2010, 02:21 PM
I'm not sure if you are saying you feel guilty because you've had a wank or you feel guilty because you've been fantasizing about your friend. Many guys go through a phase of feeling quilty about wanking, but its just a natural thing to do, there's nothing "dirty" about it. Sex is also a natural thing to do. When you feel ready for it dont feel bad or guilty, its just a part of human nature and is there to be embraced and enjoyed.

TopGear
October 24th, 2010, 02:26 PM
^^^ that pretty sums it all up... Think about it, and if you think its right, then go for it, but if you have seconds thoughts, then don't do it! Don't do something and end up regretting it.

TySpeedy
October 24th, 2010, 04:13 PM
Mmk thanks guys! :D

gooog34
October 24th, 2010, 04:32 PM
It may seem like you want to try things with your friend, but don't rush into it if you're not comfortable. I would say still have him come over if you're ok with that, but if the blowjob topic comes up make sure you're totally ok with it. You can say no if you feel you need to =]

KodieBear
October 24th, 2010, 11:05 PM
dont masturbate the day he comes over. that way if you do feel guilty, it will be after the deed was done lol

BayArea
October 24th, 2010, 11:28 PM
I know what your talking about, The same thing used to happen to me, but it hasent happened in years, I guess its just one of those things about adolescence.

Milo1234
October 25th, 2010, 06:22 AM
Just do what feels right. if its wat u want then do it

Abigballofdust
October 26th, 2010, 02:24 PM
Besides the feeling, an orgasm implies loosing sexual will. That's why. Just don't masturbate until he does his thing and you'll see you'll enjoy it. Good luck :)

RJLOVER
October 26th, 2010, 02:56 PM
i know exactly what youre talkig about...me and my friend had the same problem if i finished first i wouldnt want him there like i felt weird that he was there naked. what i figured out from virtual teen cause i posted the same thing is that youre just not horny anymore. like yes youre attracted to him but once you cum you lose the hornyness and dont need him there. you can try him finishing first and then you so you both end up happy

gots.it.fresh
October 26th, 2010, 03:49 PM
when you guys are talking about doing things together and everything, its when your horny or alittle. and when your done jacking off then you not as honry or non at all and then you find no intrest in it. not guilt.