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the8bitter
October 23rd, 2010, 11:47 PM
Ok, so fate had it that I end up in classes with whom I'd consider the most amazing woman in school. Whenever I'm in class with her, I end up getting a massive erection and can't concentrate on my schoolwork. I can't help myself...she's so beautiful! Once, I've ejaculated in my boxers just from taking a look at her for one second (staring is just perverted...I wouldn't want to do that.).What should I do about this? I don't really care about my academics anymore (since all I can think about is her, anyways :P), but I don't want to be horny all day either. :(

In case anybody wants to play the role of Captain Obvious...I'm well aware that I have a crush on this girl. Problem is, I can't and have no intentions of saying something about it to her. She's a beautiful prep, and I'm just a lone loser. That's a crime in itself, yes? So, I need to work this problem out without actually conversing with anybody. I've told friends about my situation before, though. One of my friends tried pissing me off by talking about how she kissed him, and the other has a bit of a mouth and used to threaten me about telling her that I thought she was beautiful. He was also thinkin' about trying to get her to kiss me. That can't or won't happen, not so long as I keep my eye on him. :/

Joshuaharris
October 24th, 2010, 12:44 AM
not much you can do about it. as far as being in the same class with her. i would tell you to think about ugly women like susan boyle but i always feel weird when i do that to make my boner go away. almost like one day i will get a boner thinking about susan boyle. GHERHEALHL disgusting....i wouldnt tell anyone else cause they will probably tell people and eventually she might find out. which if she doestn like you means she will avoid you. but if she does like you that might be a good thing cause she might try to be nice to you and hope you will ask her out.

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 12:56 AM
not much you can do about it. as far as being in the same class with her. i would tell you to think about ugly women like susan boyle but i always feel weird when i do that to make my boner go away. almost like one day i will get a boner thinking about susan boyle. GHERHEALHL disgusting....i wouldnt tell anyone else cause they will probably tell people and eventually she might find out. which if she doestn like you means she will avoid you. but if she does like you that might be a good thing cause she might try to be nice to you and hope you will ask her out.

Well, apparently she's known since the beginning of the friggin school year because I've been giving signs. That's according to my friend. Well, I wouldn't know what I could have done. I'm just the shiest kid in school...would doubt anybody would know a thing about me. I don't think she cares at all.

obknobe
October 24th, 2010, 12:59 AM
Ask her hot. You are quite as good as another boy. Don't play yourself down. You may be just what she's looking for and if she says no, you no worse off than where you started.

Joshuaharris
October 24th, 2010, 01:01 AM
well if she likes you then she will find a way to show you. if not then there is not much you can do. no matter how much you like her you wont change how she feels. thats the challenge with love. finding someone who feels for you waht you feel for them.

Cjg1075
October 24th, 2010, 01:33 AM
Ok, so fate had it that I end up in classes with whom I'd consider the most amazing woman in school. Whenever I'm in class with her, I end up getting a massive erection and can't concentrate on my schoolwork. I can't help myself...she's so beautiful! Once, I've ejaculated in my boxers just from taking a look at her for one second (staring is just perverted...I wouldn't want to do that.).What should I do about this? I don't really care about my academics anymore (since all I can think about is her, anyways :P), but I don't want to be horny all day either. :(

In case anybody wants to play the role of Captain Obvious...I'm well aware that I have a crush on this girl. Problem is, I can't and have no intentions of saying something about it to her. She's a beautiful prep, and I'm just a lone loser. That's a crime in itself, yes? So, I need to work this problem out without actually conversing with anybody. I've told friends about my situation before, though. One of my friends tried pissing me off by talking about how she kissed him, and the other has a bit of a mouth and used to threaten me about telling her that I thought she was beautiful. He was also thinkin' about trying to get her to kiss me. That can't or won't happen, not so long as I keep my eye on him. :/
your in a very similar situation as me im the loner no one knows but what i did was i started fliterting with her and finally got the courage to ask her out and she said yes sadly though we only date for like a month before she move to Florida

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 05:29 PM
Ask her hot. You are quite as good as another boy. Don't play yourself down. You may be just what she's looking for and if she says no, you no worse off than where you started.

No, that is all impossible. I'm short, dorky and not very trendy. I'd never have the balls to ask her out...that's like going on a Kamikaze suicide mission.

The only thing that may get me anywhere with anybody is my philosophy on women. I think that they are all equally beautiful, and all deserve happiness no matter how they act or their physical attributes. My biggest pet peeve is the labels that a lot of guys use to describe women. "Whores", "Sluts", "Bitches"...whenever I hear those terms I want to kill whoever is saying it. Like, stab them to death with a sharp knife and leave them gasping for air as they die a slow and agonizing death. This girl I'm in love with has been called that before, I think (my best friend thinks she is, anyways). Next time THAT happens, somebody is going to have an early funeral. I'm pretty defensive of women. :)

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 05:36 PM
well if she likes you then she will find a way to show you. if not then there is not much you can do. no matter how much you like her you wont change how she feels. thats the challenge with love. finding someone who feels for you waht you feel for them.

Hmm...I'd rather settle for her not hating my guts, really. She HAS flashed me a few smiles, which is kinda cool.

Beats
October 24th, 2010, 05:59 PM
Just try to find out if she likes you :3 That's the best choice, Then you'll be able to do all those things without feeling guilty, That's how I met my girlfriend. She sounds just as amazing :3 It just Puberty, The pre-cumming in your pants is just your puberty taking over that happened to me once too I: Good luck with her, I wanna hear the outcome :)

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 06:04 PM
Just try to find out if she likes you :3 That's the best choice, Then you'll be able to do all those things without feeling guilty, That's how I met my girlfriend. She sounds just as amazing :3 It just Puberty, The pre-cumming in your pants is just your puberty taking over that happened to me once too I: Good luck with her, I wanna hear the outcome :)

I most likely won't do anything about it. I know who I am, and that I can't really please her (even if I tried). She probably only likes the nice-looking guys, and that certainly wouldn't be me...not at all. I wouldn't mind just being a nice friend, though. But I wouldn't even dream of that. :p

Beats
October 24th, 2010, 06:22 PM
If she doesn't like you, You could Always become friends, There's nothing wrong about that. Just trust your feelings, If you don't then you'll go the rest of your life beating yourself up about it.

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 06:27 PM
If she doesn't like you, You could Always become friends, There's nothing wrong about that. Just trust your feelings, If you don't then you'll go the rest of your life beating yourself up about it.

I really doubt she'd want anything to do with me. Plus, I don't like being random and all of a sudden talking to people. I keep my mouth shut for most of the school day. Most I might say is "Pardon" or "Thank You", unless the class is having some sort of debate in English class or something. Usually, when I do end up talking to people it ends up coming out wrong or perverted. FML :/

penutpanther81
October 24th, 2010, 07:19 PM
same situation dude only the girl has a bf
and i also have a small crush on my friend soo yaaa

the8bitter
October 24th, 2010, 10:11 PM
same situation dude only the girl has a bf
and i also have a small crush on my friend soo yaaa

I know how it feels to be crushing on friends. I used to hang out with a couple of girls all the time, and sort of got interested in them. Thankfully, they had no idea. I'm pretty efficient as far as hiding my intimate feelings goes.

*Sigh* My infatuation isn't getting any better. I laid in bed for about 2 hours just thinking about her. Couldn't get up, nor did I have any desire to. My friend thinks I LOVE her...which I guess is true enough. I've also cut over her, and (which is really bad to my masculinity and dignity) cried myself to sleep over her.

Beats
October 25th, 2010, 03:27 PM
Just do what you think is right, Dude.
You'll make it.

usedtobejv
October 25th, 2010, 03:58 PM
Im exactly the same...

Except for the hornyness part lol