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mmmark1985
October 23rd, 2010, 07:30 PM
K so not sure how to ask this but here goes. Me and my best friend do everything (oral and him doing me up the woohoo) but I want to try it with girls to because Im not 100% gay and stuff. Were both virgins so we dont have any sti's and stuff. Id like to have a girlfriend to maybe.
So as a girl would u wanna know about me and him?
Would that turn you off?
How should I tell a girl about it?
Alex_.-
October 24th, 2010, 08:42 PM
gooooood questions... i'm intrigued as to what the comments will be
mmmark1985
October 24th, 2010, 10:44 PM
how come so many views but nobody is saying anything? :( just say what u think please?
The Madman
October 25th, 2010, 12:58 PM
Him doing you up the woohoo?
Um. You arent a virgin. Gay Sex ( and yes thats what its called, not Bi Sex ) classifies as losing your virginity.
And if you want a girlfriend all actions with him must stop. Its called Cheating.
Fact
October 25th, 2010, 01:04 PM
Um. You arent a virgin. Gay Sex ( and yes thats what its called, not Bi Sex ) classifies as losing your virginity.
That's new on me? ↑
I think I would want to know about your past sexual history as a girlfriend, same as majority of girls would I'd imagine.
It's not exactly something you bring up in general conversation, but you should definitely tell any girlfriend you have, when the subject comes into conversation. If it doesn't come into conversation, make it come into conversation.
nick
October 25th, 2010, 02:20 PM
First of all I would have to agree that you and your friend may have been virgins before you had sex, but not now. If you were both being honest about previous experience then the chances that you would have an STI are remote.
I also agree that if you get into a relationship with a girl then you cant cheat, thats what relationships are about and it makes no difference if you are bi, thats no excuse to be two timing on anyone.
But I dont entirely agree that you need to tell a potential gf that you are bi, providing you have no intention of cheating then its irrelevant.
mmmark1985
October 28th, 2010, 08:24 PM
That's new on me? ↑
I think I would want to know about your past sexual history as a girlfriend, same as majority of girls would I'd imagine.
It's not exactly something you bring up in general conversation, but you should definitely tell any girlfriend you have, when the subject comes into conversation. If it doesn't come into conversation, make it come into conversation.
See thats the thing we dont want anybody to know especially him. If I tell then she's gonna know and probably blab to everybody but i dont want to not tell her but then if I dont have any diseases then ...??
I want to be honest but how do I bring that up in conversation? Say something about bi stuff?
Fact
October 28th, 2010, 08:52 PM
See thats the thing we dont want anybody to know especially him. If I tell then she's gonna know and probably blab to everybody but i dont want to not tell her but then if I dont have any diseases then ...??
I want to be honest but how do I bring that up in conversation? Say something about bi stuff?
Yeah, sure. You know how when you're just having a flowing conversation with someone and then you suddenly remember something you wanted to ask them, so you wait until they've finished talking and then say "hey, you remember when..." etc.
Just do that but not so bluntly - you might want to build it in more and ask her to not freak out or anything.
If she'll blab, is she worth it? If she didn't wanna hurt your feelings and cared about you at all, then hopefully she wouldn't.
Fiction
October 28th, 2010, 09:11 PM
As everyone as said you should tell her. And you definatley shouldn't carry on doing things with this guy while your going out with her.
babyhottie
December 13th, 2010, 03:15 AM
tell her and be honest with her from the start and if she said something that will hurt you then ignore and move on there are many great people in this world so dont rush if she really loves you she will accept you to who you are NOT to what you are =D
Peace ~goodluck~
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