Can't do anything right

[Fiction]

I'm fed up of it all. Everything. I can't do anything right for anyone. I can't do anything right for my dad, my mum, my sister, my boyfriend, my friends, anyone. I just seem to fail at everything i do and i actually hate myself for it. All i do is sit here and moan about it instead of doing anything.
Everything i do my boyfriend interprets wrong, i don't talk to him for a while, then obviously i don't want to talk to him and he gets annoyed at me. I don't have sex with him the OBVIOUSLY i don't love him.
My dad can never admit to being wrong, he's always right and i'm the bitch that ruins everything.
My mum just sides with my dad. I'm just the bitch that upsets him cause he's so "delicate" he needs the fucking attention from my mum.
My sister constantly tells me she hates me. I try to help her and she just tells me she hates me back.
Most of my friends just bitch about me. They suck up to each other and bitch about me, to hurt me because they hate me like everyone else. Like what is the fucking point anymore. My bf hates me what am i meant to do? Cut? Starve myself? Make myself sick? Well that's probabaly what i will do but it doesn't help anything. It just fucks things up. I'm just a fuck up that can't do anything right. I actually hate myself.

[Mr. Awesome]

Fuck them all. If they dont respect you then why should you respect them, i tend to just avoid people who gossip about me, as for your bf, he shouldnt pressure you INTO ANYTHING ever.

A quote i live by.

"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone."

[Fiction]

I like that quote :)

[Mr. Awesome]

I like that quote :)

Its a good one alright,

i wouldnt worry about what your sister says most siblings say things like that to eachother all the time, put it like this, if you heard someone bitching about your sister youd react wouldnt you, she would do the same, the love is there, but living with a teenager isnt easy.

[1_21Guns]

Kathy hun,

1) you're not a fuck up who can't do anything right
2) you know it wont help, so it's not even worth it, and you know it
3) you're better than the people that will sink low enough to bitch about you, if their lives are really that boring all they can do is slag people off, what kind of people are they?
4) your boyfriend? meh that's a bad one for me, but maybe talk to him, tell him how you're feeling about him saying you don't love him if you wont have sex? maybe you just need a deep conversation.
and you know what Kathy, like Mr. Awesome said,
fuck them
the only person you should ever aim to please, is yourself.
and anyone who doubts you? prove them wrong.
i'm here hun.
:hug3:

[Mike321]

Like the other 2 have said, fuck them, your obviously a better person than they are.
You are by no means a fuck up
People who bitch about you are just not worth your time, seriously
As your your bf, he shouldnt force you into anything (thats about as far as my relationship expertise goes, sorry)
Just do what makes you happy, as long as your happy nothing esle should matter
PM me if you want to talk

[Fiction]

Thanks Nat and Mike, it's just hard to "fuck them" when it's everyone. :/ I'm sure i'll get over it soon eneough anyways.
Thanks for your replies anyways :)

[1_21Guns]

Thanks Nat and Mike, it's just hard to "fuck them" when it's everyone. :/ I'm sure i'll get over it soon eneough anyways.
Thanks for your replies anyways :)

yeah i know what you mean :/
end of the day, you're still better than them :)

[Fiction]

Lol thanks :)

[closed]

Kathy, you are not failing... from what i've seen you are really active in the forum and help mainatining it and i'm sure there alot of othr examples. You are really sensitive, and you want to please everyone, and this is an awful combination. People around you will just use you. :mad:
You don't deserve that! there is nothing wrong with you! it's not your fault that the people around you don't appreciate you...
i know it sounds like a boring cliche, but LISTEN TO YOU HEART.
Please yourself, not the asshole friend(s). You will eventually have to live your life, not them. Obviously i am not saying that you don't need to care about other people thought, but make it reasonable.
-Do what you love, Do what you want. Please just yourself! you don't owe anyone anything. You are a teenage girl who has life to live and no one should make it misrable for you.:hug:

*hope that helps :oops:

p.m. me if you ever wanna talk about anything :)

[Fiction]

Thanks Aidan :)

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Kath, as your best friend I can say you've got it hard at times, but you're not a failure in my eyes. and you CAN do LOADS of things right. Some things might jsut take a while for OTHER people to mature and realise how harsh they are to you.
xx

[Fiction]

Thanks Chris :) Actually meant something :) xx