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Weeping
October 20th, 2010, 11:28 AM
Well, one of my best friends started like scratch/cut herself in like august or something.. I'm her only friend who knows about it, since I saw like one small cut on her arm when her sleeve slipped down a bit.. I didn't say anything at first, then when we went out for a walk and talked about stuff, so then I asked her about it.. And I also promised her that I would never tell anyone about it, except if she wanted me to.. (and she had been thinking about telling me since I've been in the same situation)

And well, today when I came to school, by 8am she told me she wanted to talk (most of the times I'm the one who starts talking to her when she's not looking okay, and yeah.. you know what I mean..)

Actually she wasn't sad or something, but later she was gonna talk to our form-master about how school's going and such.. (She's not in school the whole days now)..

And she told me she was thinking about telling him about her self-harm, but she didn't know how to tell him.. I got really happy that she actually wanted to take that step! :D
So I told her I could help her and tell him if she wanted to.. And well happily she wanted, so we went to him when it was time for it.. and I told him that she self-harms, and then the three of us talked about it..
And as he has to, he told her parents and talked to another teacher (who's like one of the best persons I've ever talked to about this kind of stuff).. And then she talked to that teacher to..

I don't know why I'm even writing this, but I needed to let this out, I guess.. And I'm happy cause she took that big step, since it's such an important step in getting better.. :)

Sorry for all the fails in me writing.. -.- And that I took your time.. :/

:hug:

UnknownError
October 20th, 2010, 11:35 AM
Congrats to your friend. :)

What did the teacher say at first when you's told him?

Weeping
October 20th, 2010, 11:48 AM
Well.. He kinda said that he had suspected it was something like that going on, but he was proud that we told him.. :)

Love.Hate
October 20th, 2010, 03:04 PM
Wow, good for her that must have been a hard thing to do,
i know i probably couldnt do it! wish her the best of luck,

and congratulations xx

Fiction
October 20th, 2010, 03:09 PM
Well doen for persuading your friend and helping your friend to do it :) And well done to your friend for taking that step :)

georgiamay
October 20th, 2010, 03:17 PM
It's the good friends that do things like this. I have a friend that did this, and I've been thanking her ever since :P congrats to you for that.

And congrats to your friend!

Fact
October 20th, 2010, 04:31 PM
it's refreshing to read stories of people that get help with their self harming ^^
well done to you both for being able to talk about it and ofcourse to you for getting your friend the help she needed! :D

HeroesAndCons
October 21st, 2010, 10:37 AM
Congrats to yer friend
:hug: :hug: :hug:

Mike321
October 21st, 2010, 01:05 PM
Well done to your friend, and to you for helping her take that step
:)

blah_x
October 26th, 2010, 03:21 PM
she is lucky to have a friend like you
x

spfreak
October 26th, 2010, 07:02 PM
That was an awesome thing you did for your friend!
congrats to her :)

iamafreak
November 2nd, 2010, 01:38 PM
Man I wish I had a friend like you. My friend hung up the phone after screaming at me when I told her. X( hardest thing ever...congrats to you and your friend!! :)

Weeping
November 24th, 2010, 09:05 AM
Well.. This thread is probably like "too old" to post in now, so sorry.. But..
Today, when we tried karate, we were in pairs so I was with this friend.. :)
And well, she kinda pulled up her sleeves cause they were kinda in the way..
(I'm still the only person in our class who knows about her sh)'
And then I saw that.. There were no new cuts and I was like..
AWW *holding her in my arms, hugging her* and kinda whispered to her like
"oww I'm soooo proud of you!! :D"

So yeah.. Just had to share.. xD