Different without condoms?

[Kaycie]

This question is for girls...if you have had sex with and without condoms, did you notice any difference in the way it feels?

I'm not going to have sex without one, just curious.

[prettyprincess]

yes it feels differnet if you dont use one. Most people say it feels better but it is not wise to try wihtout one. No matter how good it feels it wont make up for yo getting pregnant.

[Mr. Awesome]

This question is for girls...if you have had sex with and without condoms, did you notice any difference in the way it feels?

I'm not going to have sex without one, just curious.

Wait................ hold on a second, your 13 you shouldnt be having sex, but if you are(shivers, at least wait until you 15/16ish, when a relationship might be more serious) then make sure you always use a condom unless you are trying for a child, condoms dont just help stop getting pregnant but they also help stop sti/std

[nicole97]

Wait................ hold on a second, your 13 you shouldnt be having sex, but if you are(shivers, at least wait until you 15/16ish, when a relationship might be more serious) then make sure you always use a condom unless you are trying for a child, condoms dont just help stop getting pregnant but they also help stop sti/std

Well look, I agree with you on the condom part but at least in my experience you don't have to be of a certain age to have sex. Me and my BF did it and were totally ready, we'd been together 7 months when we did it for the first time (which was recently), and were totally and ready (both physically and emotionally). I'd much rather lose it at 13 and in a long committed relationship, than 16 and rushing to the sex.

[Kaycie]

Wait................ hold on a second, your 13 you shouldnt be having sex, but if you are(shivers, at least wait until you 15/16ish, when a relationship might be more serious) then make sure you always use a condom unless you are trying for a child, condoms dont just help stop getting pregnant but they also help stop sti/std

Hey mr "awesome...". What part of GIRLS ONLY FORUM is hard for you to understand? I didn't ask for your opinion on my age.

[Mr. Awesome]

Well look, I agree with you on the condom part but at least in my experience you don't have to be of a certain age to have sex. Me and my BF did it and were totally ready, we'd been together 7 months when we did it for the first time (which was recently), and were totally and ready (both physically and emotionally). I'd much rather lose it at 13 and in a long committed relationship, than 16 and rushing to the sex.

I agree that there is no certain age but i personally feel 13 is to young,

I'd much rather lose it at 13 and in a long committed relationship, than 16 and rushing to the sex.

That is a 3 year gap, 3 years to build a relationship, there is no rushing in there. now im not saying that you should wait 3 years to have sex. but there are a lot more things to do before then, at 13 sex shouldnt come into a relationship, id push it to a mature 14 y/o who is in a long relationship(and a long relationship isnt 7 months) 11 months+.

[nicole97]

I agree that there is no certain age but i personally feel 13 is to young,



That is a 3 year gap, 3 years to build a relationship, there is no rushing in there. now im not saying that you should wait 3 years to have sex. but there are a lot more things to do before then, at 13 sex shouldnt come into a relationship, id push it to a mature 14 y/o who is in a long relationship(and a long relationship isnt 7 months) 11 months+.

Well I wasn't like talking about being with a guy for 3+ years and then having sex. I was talking more about away that alot of girls lose it which is start dating a guy when they're 16 and losing their virginity within a few months of starting.

I mean I used to feel the same way about 13 being young, and it wasn't until a few weeks before we actually did it that I even thought about sex, but just with as much time as i'd spent with my BF before we did it and how well he's treated me since we became active (I would say he's treated me even better if anything) I don't think I made a mistake.

[Mr. Awesome]

Well im delighted it worked out well for you and that your happy and have been treated well

[allyclaire]

OMG yes...its like night and day...but DONT do it unless 1) ur on the pill and 2) u totally trust the guy and know hes gonnna be there 4 u no matter what and 3) ur parents r cool...

but yes theres nothing like skin to skin...

and on the age issue i was 13 when i lost it...i totally loved the guy & hes still in my life...& no things havent turned out exactly the way i wanted but i wouldnt change a thing about it...only u know when ur rdy...dont listen to ppl who arent in ur head and ur heart...

[laurita_21]

It probably does but I personally would never have unprotected sex unless I wanted to get pregnant. But also I think you shouls wait, if you really want to at least wait until your 14 and really get to know the guy that is going to take your virginity...

[Harley Quinn]

Hey mr "awesome...". What part of GIRLS ONLY FORUM is hard for you to understand? I didn't ask for your opinion on my age.

you may not have asked for it but everyone is entitled to their opinion. I dont know why you'd post if you didn't expect that sort of reaction, everyone is just trying to help. to answer your question though, I dont think it would but thats personally just my view. like laura said, i'd never have unprotected sex unless I wanted to get pregnant.

just clearing this up, boys are allowed to post, they aren't allowed to ask questions/create threads however. they would have to post then in general. so please stop trying to kick them out, thank you.

[enjoying_my_insanity]

OMG yes...its like night and day...but DONT do it unless 1) ur on the pill and 2) u totally trust the guy and know hes gonnna be there 4 u no matter what and 3) ur parents r cool...


one thing to add to this that is dont do it if you are unsure if either of you have an std/sti even if youre on the pill ciz the pill doesnt prevent those and you dont wanna be 13 with an std/sti

[Mr. Awesome]

you may not have asked for it but everyone is entitled to their opinion. I dont know why you'd post if you didn't expect that sort of reaction, everyone is just trying to help. to answer your question though, I dont think it would but thats personally just my view. like laura said, i'd never have unprotected sex unless I wanted to get pregnant.

just clearing this up, boys are allowed to post, they aren't allowed to ask questions/create threads however. they would have to post then in general. so please stop trying to kick them out, thank you.

She gave me neg rep aswell:(

[Nightingale]

It definitely feels better, it is way more slick and hard, and wow,lol.

[DeEnd]

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[brennaluvv]

Well look, I agree with you on the condom part but at least in my experience you don't have to be of a certain age to have sex. Me and my BF did it and were totally ready, we'd been together 7 months when we did it for the first time (which was recently), and were totally and ready (both physically and emotionally). I'd much rather lose it at 13 and in a long committed relationship, than 16 and rushing to the sex.

I just have this feeling you're going to regret it. I personally think 13 is too young, even at age 16 our brains aren't fully developed and we can't comprehend consequences fully like a true adult until we're fully matured, which is a different age for everyone, but certainly not 13.

I've talked to a lot of people who've regretted having sex with someone they were in a long and committed relationship with because they ended up breaking it off. Then, you have yourself to live with and you beat yourself up for making the wrong choice. I would wait, in my opinion, until LEGAL age to have sex and make sure I was seriously in a relationship that I knew would never end, I would probably hold off until we were engaged or thinking about becoming engaged. I just find 13 to be inappropriate... Sorry.

[kentucky girl]

I agree that it feels very different and feels much better without using a condom but you have to be careful not to get pregnant. If you aren't on the pill then do use the condom

[jen691]

oh yes it feels so much better. but if i were you i would still use a condom. its a lot safer. thats just my opinionn

[jet7up]

It feels great! :yes: Much more better than using a condom :)
I am on the pill and I do not use a condom .
However if you have sex with a new guy for the first time , use a condom

[Ladean]

No condom feels so much better but that is very smart. You also have to worry about STD's

[Quick_Sylver]

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