please help, dont know what to do

[tommygreen23]

Hello everyone, this is my first post here :) great forum, its nice to be able to talk about stuff like this without being considered "wierd"

anyway, my problem...

i have a girlfriend, and we have been dateing since we were freshman in high school. we are both juniors now, and the homecoming dance is tommrow. now i think of myself as a responsible guy, her mom loves me to death, and both her mom and my dad trust me enough to let her stay the night at my house and stuff. and as of now, we havent acually had sex, but we have done littler things such as mutual masturbation, but no sex... well anyway tommrow is the dance, and she said, just like this "we will have the most fun after the dance, be sure to get some condoms, and bring your dads suv." well that does not leave much to the imagination, but i dont know if i am ready or not, and i dont want to let her down. and ill admit im kind of curious, but i think that is a huge step. i really dont know what to do, or what to tell her. i dont want to loose her as a girlfriend, as i can see myself spending my life with her. please i need help!

[*Dissident*]

well, you seem to love her. its your choice whether to have sex or not, and congratulations if you do. But, DO make sure you bring condoms, spermicide, and birth control, or all three. really, DO.

[tommygreen23]

i dont know where to get spermacide, but i know where to get condoms, are they like next to each other? and how exactly do you use it? and i dont think she is on birth control, she has no reson to, i hope :eek: but i do have friends at pharmicies, and they sell the morning after pills to minors, if they know them. how likely is it that she would get pregnant if i wore condoms?
thanks :)

[*Dissident*]

not sure on anything...but i know just be as safe as possible....

[tommygreen23]

any more advice, im leaveing in a hour :?

[tommygreen23]

well im back, and im no longer a virgin. what are the chances she will get pregnant if i wore condoms the whole time?

[tommygreen23]

mo i was careful, i dont want a kid :lol:

[*Dissident*]

how was it?

[tommygreen23]

acually, i didnt think it was all its hyped up to be, i dont know how much rouble i can get it, but it was ahrd to get it in, if you know waht i mean. and im not small, about 6.75 to 7.. after about 10 minutes i had to stop and change, but then i was ready to go for another 40 minutes :D

id say it was worth it :yes:

and she had her period yesterday, that means she cant be pregnant right?

[*Dissident*]

i think so, congrats. But, always always always use protection.

[mRojas2000]

Just to clarify, condoms is the best protection you can use, to stop pregnancy, and sex trasmited ills...
Anyways, YES, she can get pregnant even if she had her period 3 hours before you guys did sex... as long as you were wearing the condom right, you are fine man :)