Advice.. Please..

[teenfilmmaker]

In about third grade i just started hanging out with all the girls..
Since i didn't play sports i wasn't necessarily friends with all the guys in my class nor did i make guy friends easy cause i wasn't on there "basketball team or there baseball team."

So i just never really had many guys friends like most guys do.

So its now like 8th grade...
where girls don't wanna just hang out with guys ALL the time like they did in the past, because girls are actually really getting serious about wanting to date guys..

So they don't wanna hang around me all the time cause they don't want the guys they like to think they don't like them and they like me.
So i am kinda just left out there where sometimes i hang out with them or sometimes i am just kicked to the curb.

Also, i cant spend the night or have sleepovers with the girls like i would like to do to have like bonding time or just hang out time..

so don't really ever have that one person where you spend the night you know EVERYTHING about each other..

But the only problem is that with hanging out with the girls so much and not playing sports or being in PE.. and doing the musicals and choir and plays and etc. i have gotten the title as a joking way (that isn't funny AT ALL)
that i am gay. Which i am not and they all know that i am not, they just say it to be mean.

and now i am at where this year the title is sorta going away and the people i actually would want to hang out with and be best friends with are not calling me that and they are nice and we talk in class sometimes.. so how do i get to that point to where i start to get to know them better and get some cool guys Best-friends..?

Thanks Alot!

[TheAppleGeek]

thats kinda like me, but i was friends with other guys but guys that werent jocks. I know how u feel. I was called gay too. What you should do is be who you really are. Go to your friends that are girls and hang out with them. Just because your a guy doent mean u cant hang out with girls. I has called gay throught out my entire middle school years. (even tho i am bi). BE WHO YOU ARE. It gets better!

[teenfilmmaker]

thats kinda like me, but i was friends with other guys but guys that werent jocks. I know how u feel. I was called gay too. What you should do is be who you really are. Go to your friends that are girls and hang out with them. Just because your a guy doent mean u cant hang out with girls. I has called gay throught out my entire middle school years. (even tho i am bi). BE WHO YOU ARE. It gets better!

you didnt read it? i already hang out with the girls. i got the girls. I just want some guy friends? it has nothing to do with being who i want to be?

[Jhon]

I think to get more guy friends you should play sports

[teenfilmmaker]

I think to get more guy friends you should play sports

thats what i was thinking.. but the problem is i dont want too... i am not that bad at soccer but not good enough to play at this level..

[TopGear]

Well just sign up for the local rec league and play. You might not play with anyone you know but its a good way to meet new people and new guy friends as well. There is no level of play, just pay like $25 for the season.

[Guitarman]

I feel you man. I'm almost just like you bar the no sports matter. I spent my time through intermediate hanging with the girls and people say or say that they think I am gay which I am not! No offence to gay people but I wouldn't want to be gay. I truly have nothing against them but the shit I would get :(. I guess who I am just seems gay. Bu for real man just be yourself and one day you may find a good mate. Keep us posted :)

[colt]

tht was kinda like me! lol... i still have 95 % friends that are girls.. i dnt like the guys at my school...

[Mr. Awesome]

and now i am at where this year the title is sorta going away and the people i actually would want to hang out with and be best friends with are not calling me that and they are nice and we talk in class sometimes.. so how do i get to that point to where i start to get to know them better and get some cool guys Best-friends..?

Thanks Alot!

Just hang out with them, ask them if the waana go to the cinema at the weekend or play call of duty or something, keep talking to them in school and things will just fall in to place, if you have their numbers sent them some funny jokes. just be a good friend and dont worry about it, if they dont respond well then their not good enough to be your friend

[teenfilmmaker]

okay.. well last night our school had a football game. So i sent one of the football players a message on FB just saying Good job! cause he scored like a ton of touchdowns and he said thanks! and i said Welcome, Who do you normally hang out with in our neighborhood? (cause he lives in my neighborhood and i am trying to befriend him) and he replies with a few peoples names..
So i say yeah i dont really hang out with many people in our neighborhood..
and i said that hopeing he would say hey! wanna hang out some time? but all he said was Yep.. and so i repsonded with yeah.. hopeing he would respond with something else.. but he didnt.

what should i do?

[bubberdub108]

Glad to know this isn't just me... I grew up with all girls and adopted their ways a little, and I can admit I acted pretty gay throughout elementary school... At least now I can notice when I do something like that and avoid it... I'm still friends with all girls and maybe a few guy acquaintences, but most of the others at my school call me gay. Before, it really got to me, but now I just say, "No, I'm not. So FUCK YOU! :)" People can think what they think, but all of my (girl) friends KNOW I'm straight, and one gave me a handjob recently and I didn't even ask. I think some people get call gay when they aren't and then they start to just accept it... NOT ME! :D I currently like a girl ;) and kissed etc. I just think most guys at my school are douchebags. On the other hand, the only guy friend I have is my cousin's boyfriend. He is actually nice, funny, and actually pretty sensitive even though he doesn't seem like he'd be. That's about it... Hanging out with douchebags would probably turn you to one, so why do it! I'm the one who gets kisses and handjobs from just friends (without asking) while I can still like another girl... Anyway, about getting guy friends, I think it's easier to wait till they're older or something so they're all the way mature. Most guys my or your age are probably immature asses... :D Well that's about it. Good luck!

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[maxii]

i know wat u mean... i hate sportz and i waz alwayz hanggin out with girlz, so guyz were jelous an soon enough, i waz being called gay... but i didnt care... girlz were hangging out with me and they were tryin to gett with me but im more gay than str8...

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