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Love.Hate
October 18th, 2010, 12:03 PM
Basically i got bullied for two years by the same girl and i kept forgiving her and giving her second chances (badd mistake). she has ruined by life (i wont bore you with details).

she is the reason i started self harming in the first place, anyway i finally gave up and cracked. i had a go at her and told her how i hated being hit, treated like shit etc...

i moved away from the group of friends and im now hanging around with new people who are really nice to me and accept me for who i am. At breaktime and lunchtime she now comes over :(

she has started making nasty remarks. telling my new friends things about me that are not true.grabbing my bag and taking things out of it and throwing them across the playground (embarrassing when its tampons) :( i have had enough of it. my new friends keep saying she is really nice and im not a bitchy person so i just agree.

i feel so crap. i want her to leave me alone, i think she is trying to take my new friends off me. she just doesnt like seeing me happy obviously.

what shall i do? xx

whereismymind
October 18th, 2010, 01:42 PM
Look I can understand how you feel I'm in a similar situation I got 2 guys to hang around with at school and thats it because a guy made jokes about me self harming and took the rest of my friends at school. Tell your new friends why you hate her and if you have friends in upper years ask them if they can get this girl to back off. If your new friends are good friends they'll stick by you no matter what happens so you shouldn't worry. If this girl gets to you this much just try to avoid her and hang around different places at school with your new friends. I hope things get better for you I know what its like to be bullied, I've always been bullied at school since year 4, I know it seems like things will keep getting worse but if I've learnt anything this girls world will come crashing down on her sooner or later. You can always message me if you need to talk to someone

Love.Hate
October 18th, 2010, 02:16 PM
thankyou :) its so hard right now, im glad someones there for me.
doesnt feel like anyone is these days :(

whereismymind
October 18th, 2010, 02:25 PM
thats ok I understand how it feels to get bullied I know its good to have someone to talk to aswell