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lamboman43
October 16th, 2010, 04:49 PM
So I just came out to one of my friends. This is the first person I've come out to, not on the internet. I feel like it was a major mistake. My stomach is flipping around inside me. I can't believe I just told them. Was this a bad idea? I thought I was supposed to feel all great and all after telling her. I am like shaking as I am typing this. I'm too afraid too see her response. I texted it to her, and I wont open it. Should I be this nervous?


BTW when I am nervous my ears get all red and warm. They are about to burst into flames if that indicates my nervousness enough.

Normie
October 16th, 2010, 04:54 PM
Its probably normal to have feelings like this. I would just take a few deep breaths and be proud of who you are.

nick
October 16th, 2010, 05:15 PM
Its a big step to take and of course you will be nervous waiting to hear her answer. Good luck.

lamboman43
October 16th, 2010, 05:16 PM
She answered but I'm too afraid to look.

Perseus
October 16th, 2010, 05:35 PM
She answered but I'm too afraid to look.

Just look. I understand the fear of opening a text, and ultimately, you just have to open it.

lamboman43
October 16th, 2010, 07:24 PM
We have talked and she is cool with it. :yeah::yeah::yeah: Thank god! Now I feel just a little bit relieved. Now I need to tell all my friends. That will be a big challenge.

Lord C
October 17th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Well done man. I suppose the whole sexuality thing just isn't a massive surprise to people nowadays which makes it a lot easier to come out to people!

laurita_21
October 17th, 2010, 02:55 PM
Now I need to tell all my friends. That will be a big challenge.

Well done! And can I just say you are so brave and good luck!!

lamboman43
October 17th, 2010, 03:14 PM
Well done! And can I just say you are so brave and good luck!!

Thank you!:)

TheAppleGeek
October 19th, 2010, 01:52 PM
Its a big step to take and of course you will be nervous waiting to hear her answer. Good luck.

i agree...just see what happens, good luck to you